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Old 11-03-2004  
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Hi All.

Just telling you how it is. Quite frankly most people whom I meet, I don't like. I recognise that it is my social phobia influencing my judgements in a negative way. I am fully aware that I am too sensitive and submissive when the conversation requires a more assertive approach to inact my desires. However quite often I find myself being amicable and compromising to avoid conflict. The soul purpose being to avoid conflict . Even though I may have not expressed my opinion or gotten my way. Often I recognise other peoples agendas as more essential than mine. It aggravates me so much. I am aware of it yet find it extremely difficult to overcome. Any advice would be much appreciatted. Cheeers
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I wish had some advice... but I'm the same way. :(
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I'm the same way too. But people come across to me as selfish & self centered, they think of themselves as faultless and appear to look down on everyone else.

I thought I could find people like me that were not 'into themsleves' here at this site and other phob sites, but I am discovering I am forming the same opinon about the people here/there as well.

It's like everyone is signing that "I'm Too Sexy" song about themselves 24/7
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((((( just because you have zero confidence doesnt mean we should all feel exactly the same.))))))

I didn't mention that I thought YOU SHOULD... did I? I was just stating how I felt.

And.... I have given peoples chances, chance after chance after chance. That's another reason why I FEEL THE WAY I DO and I'm not trying to sway anyone or think you should all feel the same way I do!! That was NOT my intention in the slightest.
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I can't help or change the way I feel, eap. when I'm critised for it... that makes it even worse... but that's another reason that people vcome across to me that they think THEY are better than me, or have the better opinions or thought. They are wonderful and superior to me in every way. Yet.... I suppose I love MYSELF and think I'm superior because that's how everyone else comes across to me? Oh hell yes.
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woe woe woe is me Ms. Wonderdoll, if ONLY if only if only I was as perfect and wonderful as you, then I could critise others negativty and be perfect too but... sigh.... but I suppose I love myself too much sighhh
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Damn, guest, out of all the people here you seem to have the paranoia problem the worst. Are you having therapy, because I really think you could use it to try to get rid of the negative energy build up instead of coming here and taking it out on people that are just replying to what you said...and actually you do come across as a little harsh so i see where worrydoll was coming from with her comments. No need to come back with a nasty comment, we have all been in your shoes at one point or another, I will just take it that your having a bad day :(
No ones perfect, we wouldnt be on this site if we were.
Anyways, hope ya feel better soon
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I'm harsh & nasty lilmiss?
I suppose THIS is sweetness & cream------- ((((( give people a ****ing chance and stop slating them.))))) No problem tho... I would defend a friend as well.
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Old 11-04-2004  
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guest, its about time you starting taking things inthe right context, I know your socialphobic and its all part of it but you have to remember that other people are just as senstive so if you really want to take it out on someone try instead to think about thier feelings before making them feel like crap!
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I'm like that too, as I'm sure most of us are. I think for me, I feel I'm not as impotant or worthy as others. So somehow I guess I need to realise I'm equally important and my thoughts, feelings etc are just as valid. I know this in theory but I need to put it into practise. I am getting better though. Assert our rights as human beings blah, blah. We are all allowed to make mistakes, get things wrong. I think that damn judge, UpDown posted about has a lot to answer for in this.
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