WHY is it that most people think everyone else is just like them when it comes to being alone? They are so sure that no one wants to be alone and cannot possibly enjoy it. I am one of those people who TRULY LOVE it! I DON'T see this as a "phobia", though some people do. WHY?? I have never been a needy person. I have no need to live with anyone because the truth is I find too many people annoying and cannot wait to get away from them. I have a partner and he's a good person who I love but just cannot see myself living with him. I love that he can spend time with me---but then go back to his place. I have a few close and really good friends who I can count on but I don't want to be in their company all the time. I never felt the need to have kids. I don't even like them. I've seen so many selfish brats who don't care about their parents. I adore babies, but forget kids. So many of them are hyper and won't keep still. Once a month I visit my elderly Aunt in a nursing home and I think to myself "So this is what kids do to their parents". Her kids hardly ever visit her. There are so many old people this happens to. When I am out at a party, I get so BORED listening to people talk about the lives of their kids that all I keep thinking about is getting the hell out of there and going home to my dog and cat. Ordering a pizza and watching a good movie. I cherish these times. It is a piece of heaven for me. Why do some people refuse to believe that some of us TRULY love being alone?? Some people are just so weak and needy that they would end their very lives from being alone! I feel so sorry for them. Does anyone think there is something "wrong" with me just because I am strong and not a needy person?