I dont think nice people exist anymore

I feel like a failed experiment and everyone is watching/judging my every move
People i thought i could trust just end up using me..but thats my fault for being an easy target...

I cant walk outside my house without one of my neighbors glaring at me

I need help, but the only option for help with this is other people, but people suck, they cant be trusted

Im trying to just keep pushing to improve my life... But whats the point? Im not even sure what "improvement" would be

Im kinda ranting.. My "friendly" neighbors are laughing at me again :'(

Man, I can so relate to that thread title... It's kinda depressing.

aloneloner said:

I feel like a failed experiment and everyone is watching/judging my every move
People i thought i could trust just end up using me..but thats my fault for being an easy target...

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^ This is pretty much how ah've felt for much of my life. A failed social experiment that people just gawk and laugh at.

Most people have treated me in the same way as you described for much of my life. Using me, manipulating me and so on. Ah guess that due to me being naive and too trusting of peiople.

aloneloner said:

I cant walk outside my house without one of my neighbors glaring at me

I need help, but the only option for help with this is other people, but people suck, they cant be trusted

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D'you get anxious when ya walk outside? Cuz I do, ah hate feelin' like everybuddy's judging me negatively when ah go outside.

Ah don't trust people, either. Even people who are as nice to me as I am to them. Though, that could be due to past bad experiences, probably is rightly enough.

aloneloner said:

Im trying to just keep pushing to improve my life... But whats the point? Im not even sure what "improvement" would be

Im kinda ranting.. My "friendly" neighbors are laughing at me again :'(

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I'm trying to improve as well, like you, ah huv no idea what I'm my end goal is in this improvement. Since people seem more stand-offish and unfriendly nowadays, or maybe it's me? :idontknow:

And I'd suggest trying to ignore yer neighbors, which ah know is easier said than done. Why d'they laugh at you, anyway - if you mind me askin'? Don't answer if ye feel it's upsetting to go into the reasoning behind their behaviour.

Sorry I can offer any advice, -but ah do relate to how you feel and what said about nice people being rare nowadays.

Awwww, you sound nice/friendly to me, I'm sure there are kind folks out there, do me a favor and keep on searching for them why don't ya?

Nice people do exist but not in vast amounts like before. Unfortunately, people are becoming more selfish each day and backstabbing. Everyday, I prefer my own company or with a select number of close friends I can trust.

There are nice ppl out there. Unfortunately there are a lot of wankers. Far more than there are nice ppl.

Truely nice people are rare, they do exist and they are inspiring.

In the past it was in a person's best interests to be nice to their neighbor because you never knew when you might need their help with something, now'a days we look to institutions, "professionals", and technology for help.
As we are seeing, when people don't truly need each other they turn narcissistic and overly self-involved.
Why? Because they can...

Well, nice people do exist. Sometimes I feel disappointed of people around me too. I treated them nicely but they never appreciate, so I just consider myself stupid. I seem like having a lot of friends, but in reality I feel lonely. They are approaching me just to seek for my help, but in the end nobody ever understands me. Sometimes I just wish I will meet someone who can understand and support me, but seems like this kind of person doesn't exist. Just to tell you, you are not alone.

I'm sorry you've had bad experiences :sad:

There are decent nice and genuine people out there and on this forum, I really hope that you are able to get the help you need.

I have an experiment for you! I would agree that it sometimes feels like there arent' many genuine people left, but I have also found that if you put out a positive vibe, smile as much as you can and try to reflect what you want to see in others....you'll find it.

For one week, even if you're upset and frustrated, smile more, say hello, do your best to start conversations and brighten someone elses day. You'll either get it back, or not notice the negativity anymore.

I'll be the first one to say, if you're looking for and expecting negativity....you'll definitely find it!

Also, I went through a period of a few years when I was really self conscious and felt like I was being constantly judged....believe me, people are so wrapped up in their own lives these days they barely notice if they have pants on...you aren't first on their list of things to think about. I don't mean that in a negative way.

The good news is, that the longer you struggle with, the more quickly the time is coming where you'll reach a point that you...just...don't...care about what they think. It gets exhausting after a while. I've been right where you are.

Keep fighting the good fight.

I exist. I am nice

Yes, I know the feeling!!

aloneloner said:

I feel like a failed experiment and everyone is watching/judging my every move
People i thought i could trust just end up using me..but thats my fault for being an easy target...

I cant walk outside my house without one of my neighbors glaring at me

I need help, but the only option for help with this is other people, but people suck, they cant be trusted

Im trying to just keep pushing to improve my life... But whats the point? Im not even sure what "improvement" would be

Im kinda ranting.. My "friendly" neighbors are laughing at me again :'(

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You're not a failed experiment nor an easy target, your heart is so pure and you're so nice that people nowadays don't know how to deal with precious people like you, i feel you so much about being used and that you can't trust people, it's tough and i hope that your life will get better because you deserve better my dear.