hippiechild

best advice evAr!

One of these days I'm going to replace you with an aardvark

Danfalc

Who knows she might actualy like him,alot of young people enjoy holiday romance it doesnt just have to turn into some seedy littlle fling And if it does they are both adults near enough,im sure she can make her own mind up

And this is how you might end up meeting that someone yknow,fair enough maybe not,but its from these sort of like experiences that we do end up meeting the people who could be in the rest of our lives or maybe just a life long friend.I dont really see what the problem is,just because he isnt madly in love with her he isnt aloud to see if shes intrested at all?

hippiechild

=)

Indeed, he shouldn't shun or avoid her. This is a chance for something great, but it's important to be cautious and sensitive. As the host, it's all too easy to make the guest uncomfortable. I just don't think that he should try to make it into something that it very well might not be. If and when he spends time with her and finds that they're compatible, then perhaps something will come of it on its own.

Taking her to nice restaurants, sharing interests, cooking together, talking, going for walks to wherever, but I don't think that he should try to tell her that he likes her (outside of acting as an especially gracious host) until there is a connection of some kind.

I recognize that I could easily be placing my own feelings upon this girl, but coming from another country and living with complete strangers certainly would leave a person quite helpless and dependent. I just can't help but imagine her attempting to get on well with the family, receiving creepily suggestive winks and smiles all the while... *shudders* "Heyy sweetie... guten morgen "

One of these days I'm going to replace you with an aardvark

Josh90

I am a good host and try to be as polite as possible, you dont know how hard it is to keep my emotions at bay with such a girl like this around my house , I dont want to make her feel uncomfortable, but then again if she likes me she might not be showing it since she doesnt want to make me uncomfortable or something. I try and give her her own space but sometimes I feel I should talk to her more, im not going to tell her how I feel, I dont feel it is right

thor01

Reminds me of 2 years ago in year 12 at school, there was a German girl staying for a year, going to another school but coming to mine for 1 lesson, which I was in. She was very nice and I always wanted to get the opportunity or make the opportunity to talk to her, but i didn't get the chance and didn't dare to make the chance all year. I became obsessed, and then as the year was coming to an end she wasn't in the lessons for a few weeks. On one of the lessons near the exam she came in and I planned to finally make the opportunity after the lesson when she would be on her way home. After the lesson I waited around where I had seen here walking on her way home before, I waited a while and she never walked past. She didn't come to any more lessons after that.
You have a great opportunity to at least interact in some way, which would have been amazing for me if I got to do that with her.

klytus

That is the best decision.