I feel so stupid.

anomicdeer

Well-known member
I feel like I don't know how to do anything. I feel stupid and that I don't know how to function correctly. I feel like I do everything wrong no matter what I do. No matter how I try to learn from a previous time I embarrassed myself. I feel like my luck is going down and it'll get worse until I finally physically kill myself. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't make friends or even associates which makes me feel like I'm nothing. I don't know what it is about me that people don't like but is a completely fine trait on someone else.
 

greggy

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I feel like I don't know how to do anything. I feel stupid and that I don't know how to function correctly. I feel like I do everything wrong no matter what I do. No matter how I try to learn from a previous time I embarrassed myself. I feel like my luck is going down and it'll get worse until I finally physically kill myself. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't make friends or even associates which makes me feel like I'm nothing. I don't know what it is about me that people don't like but is a completely fine trait on someone else.

Honestly i feel the very same as you, i feel like people treat me less then other people. But if a few of us feel the same then we have to be strong together. We never treat people like shit or make them feel they are stupid and that's why we are better then them. Never forget it!
 
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MotherWolff

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I feel like I don't know how to do anything. I feel stupid and that I don't know how to function correctly. I feel like I do everything wrong no matter what I do. No matter how I try to learn from a previous time I embarrassed myself. I feel like my luck is going down and it'll get worse until I finally physically kill myself. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't make friends or even associates which makes me feel like I'm nothing. I don't know what it is about me that people don't like but is a completely fine trait on someone else.

I advise that you cease trying to live up to people's standards.

As long as you keep this type of talk up, things won't change for the better.

I am suggesting that you change you....

I was in your shoes before too. I know how you feel.

The way you see yourself and the world around you is highly distorted. But that can be changed for the better.

The question now is, "Do you want help?"
 

anomicdeer

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I can't see the world like I want to. Depression comes back to me even worse than it was last time. I can't even talk or comprehend in a simple way. I can't get over the person that I want to be with and I can't sleep. I never have problems sleeping bit I just made it worse by talkin to them. Now I have to find a way I can manage to watch tv all day to keep my mind off things while trying to be a mother...
 

LazyHermitCrab

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I feel like I don't know how to do anything. I feel stupid and that I don't know how to function correctly. I feel like I do everything wrong no matter what I do. No matter how I try to learn from a previous time I embarrassed myself. I feel like my luck is going down and it'll get worse until I finally physically kill myself. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't make friends or even associates which makes me feel like I'm nothing. I don't know what it is about me that people don't like but is a completely fine trait on someone else.

You made your text unique and idk how to do that so you're smart! I feel dumb a lot too but don't hurt yourself because it's not worth it! You could just be having a bad year... I have had many bad years too but keep going.
 

anomicdeer

Well-known member
You made your text unique and idk how to do that so you're smart! I feel dumb a lot too but don't hurt yourself because it's not worth it! You could just be having a bad year... I have had many bad years too but keep going.



I don't have proof I know how to do that. I'd need Bachelors in text editing to get a job. That's a joke by the way.

Last year was a bad year for me. It was horrible. This year seems to be carrying the luck along with it so far. Anyway, thanks.
 

Sacrament

Well-known member
You made your text unique and idk how to do that so you're smart! I feel dumb a lot too but don't hurt yourself because it's not worth it! You could just be having a bad year... I have had many bad years too but keep going.

Really not an indicator of someone being smart, since all you have to do is use the editing tools above the reply box, where you can choose your font, color, size, etc.

But yes, you should make an assessment of your skills and build upon them, or build upon skills you wish to have (volunteer work to improve social skills, photography workshop if you like photography, etc).
 

MotherWolff

Banned
I can't see the world like I want to. Depression comes back to me even worse than it was last time. I can't even talk or comprehend in a simple way. I can't get over the person that I want to be with and I can't sleep. I never have problems sleeping bit I just made it worse by talkin to them. Now I have to find a way I can manage to watch tv all day to keep my mind off things while trying to be a mother...

I notice you use that negating word that lots of us all use sometimes:"can't."

Every "can't" is a creation. I would like for you not to self-sabotage yourself.

Surely you have other interests besides tv. Tv often shows highly negative things.

I want you to write down what you want in life.

Go from there....becoming happy is more simple than you think.

If you are happy, this means you are grateful. :)
 

intothewild

New member
There's always something deep inside us that we do know we love or we are better then average (although that shouldn't be your drive purpose). I "can't" make changes as quickly most people often do but I discover through out the time that everyone if commit to it can accomplish great things. So every year I pick 1 or mostly 2 things that may have meaning to me or it may influent may well being. As once said:

"To follow, without halt, one aim: that's the secret of success."

but also mentioned that...

"Success depends in a very large measure upon individual initiative and exertion, and cannot be achieved except by a dint of hard work."

So, pick one thing at a time and work it hard.
 

NamiraWilhelm

Well-known member
Maybe try to think of it as.... the less you know now, the more there is to learn!?

I have this problem of feeling like I don't know how to do anything. I had a -very- isolated childhood and missed a lot of school. I feel very behind in my development and am very conscious of having no skills/particular talents. I can't play any instruments, not good at any sports, don't really know how to cook, don't have any hobbies that require any 'know-how', really.

All we can do is try these things and find something we have a knack for. And even if you don't have the knack for it, if you enjoy it you should do it any way.
 

intothewild

New member
All we can do is try these things and find something we have a knack for. And even if you don't have the knack for it, if you enjoy it you should do it any way.

This surely the most important. Don't give a damn to others (except your close ones) when it comes to decide what is the best for you.
 

sonia

Member
I have felt stupid many times, as a matter I think, I think too much about the blunders I have committed . As a matter of fact I also think too much of the blunders I think I have committed well in reality I haven't and no one is really thinking about it. But in my mind everyone's talking about it and laughing at me .

Sometimes I am right , but many times I am making it up. Its all in my mind. It is easy to say that you should not bother about what people say. The truth is , it is easier said that done ... I also think too much about the rude things someone said and how I should have answered back . The I realised , that the trick is not to try and shun the thoughts . The trick is to analyse it till it looses its value ... I am still in the process of checking if this works ... so no guarantees
 

MotherWolff

Banned
I have felt stupid many times, as a matter I think, I think too much about the blunders I have committed . As a matter of fact I also think too much of the blunders I think I have committed well in reality I haven't and no one is really thinking about it. But in my mind everyone's talking about it and laughing at me .

Sometimes I am right , but many times I am making it up. Its all in my mind. It is easy to say that you should not bother about what people say. The truth is , it is easier said that done ... I also think too much about the rude things someone said and how I should have answered back . The I realised , that the trick is not to try and shun the thoughts . The trick is to analyse it till it looses its value ... I am still in the process of checking if this works ... so no guarantees

I like you!:) Maybe we can be good friends someday.:thumbup:
 
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