I have a boyfriend and I'm nervous

PrincessKitty

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I met him through facebook on two groups, we have been talking for about a few months now. He lives in America New York and I live in England
When I normally get a bf i get to know them for about a year.

Although I did the same thing with my ex's and they cheated on me and one of them abused me.

Anyway wour first skype call was over 6 hours! That's when we made it official. We talked about everything and I for the first time I feel comfortable. He even brought me out of depression.

Then two nights ago I had a dream that he will cheat on me and nowI'm worried.

He knows I had bad relationships and he also got cheated too (he told me) he still has ex's on his facebook, but all of them (I think have got bfs now) but to honest I still have some ex's on my facebook (well the guys i have dated in the past)

He wants to meet me.

But I'm nervous and scared (also this is the first time ever I felt nervous around a guy. Normally on a date I'm never nervous)

Please help me.
 

Metal_isthe_Answer

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Personally I think you're nervousness is very rational, for example I've been rejected by every woman I have ever liked, so I generally keep my feelings to myself. I think you should just tell him that you're kind of nervous (down play it a bit to see how he reacts, you don't want him to think you're scared of him or anything) and hopefully he will be understanding and polite about it.
It seems pretty obvious to me that this guy means a lot to you and that you are stressed, no better way to fix that than to talk to him face to face.

Also, your profile pic looks very familiar, who is it, or what anime is she from?
 

BlueWeepingRose

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I think I'd be a little nervous too. Especially if the conversation lasted 6 hours and how he wants to meet you. I'd go slow about this and not meet him so suddenly. And I'd be honest with him, tell him how you feel. Don't keep those kind of things bottled up inside. However you're reaction is quite normal if you're used to be abused and cheated on. I was abused before and cheated on and it's very hard for me to trust people, so trust me I understand where you're coming from. I hope everything works out for you in the end. :)
 
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