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Old 04-28-2008  
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Default I have no one to talk to, super lonely

i have no friends, my mother doesn't talk to me, I get a lot of chances for a girlfriend but I am too shy to go for it so i **** it up. I am always nervous. I really think I am going crazy slowly, the same way someone in jail who never sees anyone so they go crazy, but faster than me of course.

anyone I try to talk to says "just go make friends" well it's hard when every kid at school always treated you like shit and you never had a friend. please tell me what to do. I have no one to talk to. I am not depressed, I am mostly lonely from all my ruined chances. what can be done. I think I am crazy.

I want to die from the loneliness. I would never try to suicide although I will always suffer always. I really can't talk to anyone at all. I am in new jersey.
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Old 04-28-2008  
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Well you have already took the first step by comming here. Stick around and start posting here. You can start off with online friends then maby meet them in real life.
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Try visiting the chat room, for starters. I've noticed that I'm able to open up more in a chat room than even in a forum.

And my friends in the past have said that I'm a lot easier to talk to in things like an instant messenger program. Definitely take baby steps. When you've talked to someone online it makes it easier to talk to them in person, I think. Talking online can be a way of making a habit of talking to people.

But anyways...have you tried talking to a doctor? I don't know how bad your problem is but social anxiety/social phobia really is considered a medical problem, and there are doctors out there who are capable of helping people like you and me.

"people become obsessed with the few traits they dont like about themselves and often neglect all the the things that make them amazing people." -zeroday
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I don't have any friends either. I figure its mainly because I'm socially inept and I trust no one. It would be difficult to suddenly make friends after years of having no friends. Maybe you could begin making friends online, since its probably easier for you to speak to others from a distance. I would recommend paying a visit to the chat room here, but when I try to go into it, the whole internet closes out on me(I wonder if its incompatible with the Fire Fox program). :? But the question is, how would these people truly act in person?

The Lone Wolf's Cry Lonely now, as I always was, I cry the lonely cry of a wolf. -By Nadine Mondrae,age 13 contact me at super4eternity@hotmail.com if you're interested......in talking to me **YOU CAN IM ME, EMAIL ME, OR DO BOTH IF YOU LIKE. JUST LET ME KNOW THAT YOU ARE FROM SPW! ** Oh and I like to talk third person sometimes just for the heck of it(no, not in real life just here on SPW).
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Well MotherWolff do you have JAVA?
If you dont get MIRC from the internet, you should pay a visit to the chat here, its wort the effort.
I have foud that chatting online realy helps me with my APD, so maybe it can help you too.

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Old 05-01-2008  
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Hey thanks scorpion, JAVA was what I needed.However, there was hardly anyone on the SPW chatroom. I always seem to visit chatrooms at the wrong time of the day. When I'm in one its like there's hardly anyone to there to speak to. And alot of times I worry too much about saying the wrong things. Don't you theloneliest? But I won't give up the chatrooms idea just yet. I just have to get into the habit of going to those more often.

The Lone Wolf's Cry Lonely now, as I always was, I cry the lonely cry of a wolf. -By Nadine Mondrae,age 13 contact me at super4eternity@hotmail.com if you're interested......in talking to me **YOU CAN IM ME, EMAIL ME, OR DO BOTH IF YOU LIKE. JUST LET ME KNOW THAT YOU ARE FROM SPW! ** Oh and I like to talk third person sometimes just for the heck of it(no, not in real life just here on SPW).
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Old 05-08-2008  
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Default I want to suicide but I really won't

I need friends now.
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Old 05-08-2008  
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Default I want to suicide but I really won't

I don't know if i said this but I have no friends really. and I am going crazy, I need a gf but I am too shy. I need someone to talk to now and I really wish I could be gone.
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Old 05-08-2008  
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Hi theLoneliest. I think you should stop focusing so much on haveing friends and focus more on just interacting with people who share similar intrest.

Friendships dont happen relationships dont happen over night. Before you can have friends you must first just be around people weather it be online or in real life.
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U can always choose to get better when you feel ready, so never give up. Also stop wanting relationships just let go. The attitude that you need friends is driving you crazy not the actual situation. Despite what you may think you can be content to live alone. You will not go crazy as long as you are around others from time to time even if you don't talk with them. Let go of outcome focus on plan for recovery :wink:
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