There is a girl at work I like, actually I'm very interested in her. I met her at work and sat with her at lunch one time. It got a little akward. I asked her some questions, and she was very short, with just replying yes or no. When other people talks to her, she seems to talk a lot, and it doesnt look like she have social anxiety like I do.
I sendt her a request on facebook, and she accepted. She liked my profile picture, which me very glad.
We started talking on facebook, and we talk every night. It's been like a month now. She NEVER talks to me at work. She doesnt say hi. I met her when I came to work yesterday, and she saw me, and just walked away without saying anything. Also when she was about to leave, we met. She saw me, but didnt say bye. Why don't she talk to me?
With my Social anxiety it's just getting harder for me to talk to her, because I like her, and I'm so affraid to say something wrong, look stupid and make a fool of myself. I just can't take contact with her at work at this point.
So yesterday a store which sells outdoor clothes, sports etc, had a competition on facebook, where I could win a jacket for me and a friend. The only thing I had to do was to like the post, and comment on who I wanted to go out with.... So I actually tagged her. I was very scared to that, because I didnt know how she would react. But I did it.
Well, she came online after a while, and she started a conversation with me like she also do. I thought she would mention what I did, but she didnt. We talked alot as usual, talking about our days and what we have done. I find it a little weired she didnt mention that I tagged her named that way, because it's like asking her to do something with me.
I pretty sure she get's a notification on facebook, and can see the post I wrote with her name, so she should known.
I know she doesnt have a boyfriend. I feel we have alot in common. and she is really kind. She still lives with her parents at age 30. I'm 33 and leave with my parents. I have never had a girlfriend before, and this maybe my chance. What do you think?
I sendt her a request on facebook, and she accepted. She liked my profile picture, which me very glad.
We started talking on facebook, and we talk every night. It's been like a month now. She NEVER talks to me at work. She doesnt say hi. I met her when I came to work yesterday, and she saw me, and just walked away without saying anything. Also when she was about to leave, we met. She saw me, but didnt say bye. Why don't she talk to me?
With my Social anxiety it's just getting harder for me to talk to her, because I like her, and I'm so affraid to say something wrong, look stupid and make a fool of myself. I just can't take contact with her at work at this point.
So yesterday a store which sells outdoor clothes, sports etc, had a competition on facebook, where I could win a jacket for me and a friend. The only thing I had to do was to like the post, and comment on who I wanted to go out with.... So I actually tagged her. I was very scared to that, because I didnt know how she would react. But I did it.
Well, she came online after a while, and she started a conversation with me like she also do. I thought she would mention what I did, but she didnt. We talked alot as usual, talking about our days and what we have done. I find it a little weired she didnt mention that I tagged her named that way, because it's like asking her to do something with me.
I pretty sure she get's a notification on facebook, and can see the post I wrote with her name, so she should known.
I know she doesnt have a boyfriend. I feel we have alot in common. and she is really kind. She still lives with her parents at age 30. I'm 33 and leave with my parents. I have never had a girlfriend before, and this maybe my chance. What do you think?
