if a so called friend sais "your f**ked up"

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i have a reputation as being slightly mad!

i dont really care about that because being slightly mad and eccentric is part of my character and most of the time i enjoy that side of me cause its usually funny and entertaining.

the question is if a so called friend calls you "f**ked up" how would you feel and more to the point what would you do about it?
 

BlackKids

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All depends how It was said. I properly wouldn't be too bothered unless they tried get me sectioned or whatever.
Some off the funniest people I know are eccentric. It just makes for good character
 

JCS008

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Your eccentric and slightly mad part of your character is funny to you, but how doe sit make other people feel?
 
I'd just be a bit annoyed at the friend really. Being eccentric and a bit mad is awesome! And that's who you are, so if someone who's friends with you doesn't accept that then that just sucks for them, but I wouldn't think you have to do anything about it, just ignore it really :)
 

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I'd just be a bit annoyed at the friend really. Being eccentric and a bit mad is awesome! And that's who you are, so if someone who's friends with you doesn't accept that then that just sucks for them, but I wouldn't think you have to do anything about it, just ignore it really :)

yes thats what i mean, it really hurt me. if a 'friend' is saying that to me, then what do other people think of me

i deleted her from facebook etc

i think that if i was the person that said the same thing to her, she would never speak to me again.

ive had enough of people puting me down.
 

jameshable

Active member
Depends how he told you.. Did you do something crazy and he sort of laughed when he said it? He could have only been joking. Did he say it in front of other people as if trying to show off and point at you so everyones attention turned to you? Or what?
 

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Depends how he told you.. Did you do something crazy and he sort of laughed when he said it? He could have only been joking. Did he say it in front of other people as if trying to show off and point at you so everyones attention turned to you? Or what?

it was a she.
i havent seen her for months, just chat over the phone. she was in company, i wasnt. she phoned me to help with her pc. i think she was just showing off a bit, i dont have the time for people like that, you know, all nicey nicey to your face and then talk about you behind your back
 

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tell them, "you're right, remind me to put your name on the list".

lol lorraine thats good like.:D
i was going to say this "well who is the most fkd up? the fkd up person or the fkd up person that phones the fkd up person at 2 in the fkn morning to help fix her pc"!!!
 

NothingElseMatters

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the question is if a so called friend calls you "f**ked up" how would you feel and more to the point what would you do about it?

i'd probably get depressed and also make 100 scenarios in my head for murdering her:)but i'd probably do nothing in real life except avoiding her
 

mmmm

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I'd just say thanks. Then I'd shake my head sadly and say "you know, You're perfectly well balanced and normal." Maybe I'd follow that up with a sigh and a reassuring shoulder squeeze.
 

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I'd just say thanks. Then I'd shake my head sadly and say "you know, You're perfectly well balanced and normal." Maybe I'd follow that up with a sigh and a reassuring shoulder squeeze.

i always grip my right hand to my left shoulder its like a barrier.
defence!

i never realised that it was SA
 

Quiet Angel

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*haha* I have numerous friends who say I'm "f**ked up" for numerous reasons; being slow & airheaded, taking everything seriously, making poor choices, having a big mouth, having an eccentric character, the list simply goes on. What do I do about it? Confrontation. If that isn't effective, I avoid them for a while.
 

Queen_Of_Pain

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i have a reputation as being slightly mad!

i dont really care about that because being slightly mad and eccentric is part of my character and most of the time i enjoy that side of me cause its usually funny and entertaining.

the question is if a so called friend calls you "f**ked up" how would you feel and more to the point what would you do about it?

I'd probably burst out laughing. Takes one to know one.
 
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