I'm insanely jealous of my best friend's boyfriend

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da_illest101

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So here is the situation. She has been with her bf for 7 years and I know her for 4 years. Obviously her bf is he priority but in the past couple of months I'm just be getting jealous about it. It's not like she is paying no attention to me but I guess I would love for her to ditch him and pay more attention to me lol. The thing is their relationship has been going downhill for the past 2 and so years. they broke up and go back together but it's not like things are going much better but she is too dependent of him. It's not that he treat her bad it's just that she feels it's not good enough for her anymore.

So yea i'm jealous, I'm spending all day online just for the hope of chatting with her. I can't call her since my cell is broken and we never do anything together since we live a bit far from each other. We are both going to the same school so i hope to spend a lot more time with her.

I'm not the type of guy who just go and try to get with other guy's girl but my jealousy is just increasing.

sorry about that rant, just needed to get it out of my chest
 
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Sial Axetder

Sial Axetder

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da_illest101 said:
So here is the situation. She has been with her bf for 7 years and I know her for 4 years. Obviously her bf is he priority but in the past couple of months I'm just be getting jealous about it. It's not like she is paying no attention to me but I guess I would love for her to ditch him and pay more attention to me lol. The thing is their relationship has been going downhill for the past 2 and so years. they broke up and go back together but it's not like things are going much better but she is too dependent of him. It's not that he treat her bad it's just that she feels it's not good enough for her anymore.

So yea i'm jealous, I'm spending all day online just for the hope of chatting with her. I can't call her since my cell is broken and we never do anything together since we live a bit far from each other. We are both going to the same school so i hope to spend a lot more time with her.

I'm not the type of guy who just go and try to get with other guy's girl but my jealousy is just increasing.

sorry about that rent, just needed to get it out of my chest
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Read post. It is missing something. A question. Are you looking for an answer to your jealousy? Or an answer to why you are?

Possibly you only meant to do as stated: rant. If that is the case, perhaps the feelings have become less?

Jealousy, a world of unseen circles, can lead to a long ride out.
 
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da_illest101

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Sial Axetder said:
Read post. It is missing something. A question. Are you looking for an answer to your jealousy? Or an answer to why you are?

Possibly you only meant to do as stated: rant. If that is the case, perhaps the feelings have become less?

Jealousy, a world of unseen circles, can lead to a long ride out.
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it was more of a rant then anything else, simply wanted to share something that was on my mind for a while. I wasn't asking a question or anything. Maybe there was some ppl with similar experience.
 
agoraphobickatie

agoraphobickatie

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i feel you... i don't know if i'd be jealous or more just that i'd be mad at her for being in a crappy relationship for seven years! lol.. i mean, it sounds dramatic, if you've been with someone for seven years and you can't happily balance your life and be happy with your boyfriend/girlfriend, then you just need to get out of that sh!t... haha
i dunno, i guess i just can't stand complicated relationships, and i hate when my good friends are in stupid dramatic relationships.. it just makes me want to be like "dude.. wtf?!"

anyway, jealousy is common, it's just the way it is.. have you told her how you feel? i'm always one to keep things out in the open, so if nothing else, you can at least understand how each other is thinking/feeling, ya know? surely you'll be able to spend more time with her once school starts :)
 
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da_illest101

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agoraphobickatie said:
i feel you... i don't know if i'd be jealous or more just that i'd be mad at her for being in a crappy relationship for seven years! lol.. i mean, it sounds dramatic, if you've been with someone for seven years and you can't happily balance your life and be happy with your boyfriend/girlfriend, then you just need to get out of that sh!t... haha
i dunno, i guess i just can't stand complicated relationships, and i hate when my good friends are in stupid dramatic relationships.. it just makes me want to be like "dude.. wtf?!"

anyway, jealousy is common, it's just the way it is.. have you told her how you feel? i'm always one to keep things out in the open, so if nothing else, you can at least understand how each other is thinking/feeling, ya know? surely you'll be able to spend more time with her once school starts :)
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It makes no sense to me or to her lol but we find out that she has dependencies issues. It's not like her bf is treating her bad but she is highly concern about his lack of participation in what she does. Me and her have a lot more in common and she is the only person i can talk the whole day without getting bored.

I won't tell her how i feel because i'm not spending time with her, i haven't seen her in like a year so I find it's a bad idea to just say that over the internet. Though at school i'll try to make it a bit more obvious that i'm interested in her and try to go out with her just to see how see feel about it
 
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