I'm losing my comfort zone :(

DYiNG-iNSiDE

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omgggggg my mom just told me that next weekend this lady she works w/ is gonna move in w/ us nooooooo! i cant believe it, home is my comfortzone, the 1 place where i can relax and b myself and now shes taking it away frm me! and she knows howi feel but doesnt care. its just my little sister, dog and my mom and thats how i like it this lady ive met her once is like in her early 20 and rlly pretty and intimiating now im gonna be in my rm alllll the time :(
 

coriander1992

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Hey, this isn't neccesarily a bad thing! :) ..
seeing as its only one person, and you have met her before (even if it was ages ago, and you don't know her well) then you have the perfect oppertunity to practise dealing with people that you don't know.
Think of it as doing small baby steps at a time, its not like its a complete stranger, and its only one person, so if you work at it, and keep your eyes on your eventual goal of overcoming, and if not, learning to live with SA without so much hardship (for want of a better word lol)
If you set your mind to it, you can use this experiance to your advantage, look on the positive side, and it won't seem so bad :)
If you ever need to talk about it, message me :)
 

Scottish_Player

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I think coriander1992 said it all but i just wanna add that instead of seeing her as pretty and intimidating just see her as a big sis you never had, because if you see her in a sexual/pretty way then there is more chance of messing up infront of her if that makes sense, dont try to imprese her just treat her the way you treat your own sis just now and after a few weeks she will feel like part of the familay :)
 
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