SocialPhobiaWorld.com  
     

Home Today's Posts Register Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read
 
Go Back   SocialPhobiaWorld.com > Social Anxiety Disorder Forums > Social Anxiety Forum
 
Search this Thread
Old 11-19-2006
Warlock's Avatar
Intermediate User
 

but theres nothing I can do. I'm not a desirable person. I don't know how to make friends. I know you have to appear sociable, but I just scare people by standing or sitting by myself and not saying anything.

I don't have social phobia, but I think I have avoidant personality disorder. I feel awful for coming here. I was going to say more in this post but I feel awful writing it and can't organize my thoughts.

I don't know why i'm submitting this thread. I don't sumbmit most I write.
Warlock is offline  
Old 11-19-2006
red_reagel's Avatar
Newbie User
 

I think maybe you're just a little shy to approach people, or some do judge before the get to know people. I know this wont help much, but maybe trying to approach people and show them your true side?

Some will like you, and some might not. But it's all in confidence in yourself, and your own abilities.
red_reagel is offline  
Old 11-19-2006
liveevil's Avatar
Newbie User
 

[quote="Warlock"]but theres nothing I can do. I'm not a desirable person. I don't know how to make friends. ... I feel awful for coming here. I was going to say more in this post but I feel awful writing it and can't organize my thoughts.

I don't know why i'm submitting this thread. I don't sumbmit most I write.]

read what you wrote...ur already convinced that there is nothing u can do. thats a big problem already. why do you feel awful for posting here? i see this place as a source for free help and advice from people who know exactly what im going through.

...im not putting u down, just trying to spark some motivation and positivity...
liveevil is offline  
Old 09-09-2011
 

Quote:
Originally Posted by Warlock View Post
but theres nothing I can do. I'm not a desirable person. I don't know how to make friends. I know you have to appear sociable, but I just scare people by standing or sitting by myself and not saying anything.

I don't have social phobia, but I think I have avoidant personality disorder. I feel awful for coming here. I was going to say more in this post but I feel awful writing it and can't organize my thoughts.

I don't know why i'm submitting this thread. I don't sumbmit most I write.

Everything you said makes sense to me. Even the part where you started regreting what you had written.
I don't know what to say to you and I don't know if you'll ever read this, but I wish you all the best in the world and I send you my love.

I hope you find true happiness in life.
I wish you the best. Petey.
petey is offline  
Old 09-09-2011
Invisibleman's Avatar
Elite User
 

I know how you feel. Lately ive been feeling really lonely,probably because schools started. I always see everybody laughing and socializing and just enjoying themselves while im sitting alone in the corner. Everyday after school ive just been laying in bed thinking about it. Its really bothering me.
Invisibleman is offline  
Old 09-09-2011
ScaredToBreathe's Avatar
Intermediate User
 

Well you're definately welcome here! and please, don't be ashamed to post or anything, no one is here to judge we just try our best to help and be supportive of each other. you know we don't discrimminate, whether you're SA, depressed, OCD, or just shy or lonely or anything else. Maybe socializing more on this site may make you feel less lonely?
ScaredToBreathe is offline  
Old 09-09-2011
 

Quote:
Originally Posted by Warlock View Post
I don't know how to make friends.
A lot of people here have struggled with this very problem. Just talking to people on here should help your confidence immensly, it did for me and I've only been here for 2 1/2 weeks. You are making friends already just by talking to us.
Keep posting and maybe try talking to some folks in the chatbox, I'm there most nights so you canhave a chinwag with me.
Dead_on_Arrival is offline  
Post Reply
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search


Similar Threads to I'm so lonely
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
What to do when so lonely? lonely_world Social Anxiety Forum 30 07-02-2009 01:46 PM
lonely milo001 Social Anxiety Forum 34 08-11-2008 01:00 AM
Lonely alter_ego Social Anxiety Forum 15 02-15-2008 07:37 AM



Mobile Version
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2015, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Powered by vBadvanced CMPS v3.2.2
All times are GMT. The time now is 04:23 AM.