I'm so lonely

Warlock

Well-known member
but theres nothing I can do. I'm not a desirable person. I don't know how to make friends. I know you have to appear sociable, but I just scare people by standing or sitting by myself and not saying anything.

I don't have social phobia, but I think I have avoidant personality disorder. I feel awful for coming here. I was going to say more in this post but I feel awful writing it and can't organize my thoughts.

I don't know why i'm submitting this thread. I don't sumbmit most I write.
 

red_reagel

Well-known member
I think maybe you're just a little shy to approach people, or some do judge before the get to know people. I know this wont help much, but maybe trying to approach people and show them your true side?

Some will like you, and some might not. But it's all in confidence in yourself, and your own abilities.
 

liveevil

Member
Warlock said:
but theres nothing I can do. I'm not a desirable person. I don't know how to make friends. ... I feel awful for coming here. I was going to say more in this post but I feel awful writing it and can't organize my thoughts.

I don't know why i'm submitting this thread. I don't sumbmit most I write.]

read what you wrote...ur already convinced that there is nothing u can do. thats a big problem already. why do you feel awful for posting here? i see this place as a source for free help and advice from people who know exactly what im going through.

...im not putting u down, just trying to spark some motivation and positivity...
 

petey

New member
but theres nothing I can do. I'm not a desirable person. I don't know how to make friends. I know you have to appear sociable, but I just scare people by standing or sitting by myself and not saying anything.

I don't have social phobia, but I think I have avoidant personality disorder. I feel awful for coming here. I was going to say more in this post but I feel awful writing it and can't organize my thoughts.

I don't know why i'm submitting this thread. I don't sumbmit most I write.


Everything you said makes sense to me. Even the part where you started regreting what you had written.
I don't know what to say to you and I don't know if you'll ever read this, but I wish you all the best in the world and I send you my love.

I hope you find true happiness in life.
I wish you the best. Petey.
 

Invisibleman

Well-known member
I know how you feel. Lately ive been feeling really lonely,probably because schools started. I always see everybody laughing and socializing and just enjoying themselves while im sitting alone in the corner. Everyday after school ive just been laying in bed thinking about it. Its really bothering me.
 

ScaredToBreathe

Well-known member
Well you're definately welcome here! :) and please, don't be ashamed to post or anything, no one is here to judge we just try our best to help and be supportive of each other. you know we don't discrimminate, whether you're SA, depressed, OCD, or just shy or lonely or anything else. Maybe socializing more on this site may make you feel less lonely? :)
 

Dead_on_Arrival

Well-known member
I don't know how to make friends.

A lot of people here have struggled with this very problem. Just talking to people on here should help your confidence immensly, it did for me and I've only been here for 2 1/2 weeks. You are making friends already just by talking to us.
Keep posting and maybe try talking to some folks in the chatbox, I'm there most nights so you canhave a chinwag with me.:)
 
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