Is it possible a player become loyal?

Sure it's possible, but it should be noted that that would be a deviation from this person's normal behaviour. I wouldn't trust it until it was proven that they have changed.
 

Aylaa

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Sure it's possible, but it should be noted that that would be a deviation from this person's normal behaviour. I wouldn't trust it until it was proven that they have changed.


But how do you prove that? You can't be sure that they will never go back to their old ways, even after being loyal for a long time.
I would never trust a player, but then I have trust issues already ;)
 
But how do you prove that? You can't be sure that they will never go back to their old ways, even after being loyal for a long time.
I would never trust a player, but then I have trust issues already ;)

It would be a hard thing to prove, but I imagine something along the lines of showing a committed effort on staying true to one person should be a hint of genuine change. It's never a guarantee, of course, and it remains a leap of faith, but it's not impossible.
 

Aylaa

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I do believe it is possible to change. the thing is, it's hard to prove a negative, that they're not messing around with others behind your back.
it is indeed a leap of faith and since this is in the depression forum I assume the topic starter is not in the best mental state..... I wouldn't take the risk.

Unless TS is the player and wants to know if they can change..... Then I'd say if you really want to change, you can.
 

Argentum

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I wouldn't count on it... I know there are a lot of fantasies about love changing a person, but people either change themselves or don't. If they don't really, honestly feel it (not just hear it from someone else or give it a try), it's not going to happen. They'll still fall to temptations they don't really want to resist and believe what they used to believe deep down.
 

theoutsider

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They can but it's important to note that they will only change when THEY are ready to change. Nobody will be able to turn them into loyal people.
 
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