FriendlyShadow
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I don't think it's necessarily a fear I have against with touching/hugging someone sometimes, but lately I've been around guys I've been talking to or maybe seen briefly. Now, as strange as I am, I'm not what you call the flirtatious type of girl. As in, I'm not open/spontaneous, and please nobody take this as rude if I sound like it, but I don't smile at someone I see as a way of expressing my interest towards them. It's not that I never smile at people, but I also am not a very touchy person. I can have regular conversations with a guy as if we are both siblings or if I'm a guy myself just being casual. It's no surprise myself I was never really girly to begin with or flirts with a lot of guys I see. In fact, I guess because a lot of people are so drawn to my appearance, they end up somewhat disappointed when I reveal my personality. Now to them, I am "physically beautiful" "pretty" on the outside and that's the only thing they notice. It's as if my appearance deceives others to lead them to believe I'm probably this outgoing, lovable, intelligent, girl. I think it's because the fact that my personality doesn't match up with the way I look like.
I'm not who a lot of people believe to think I am. Sometimes I think that I'm a guy living inside of a girl's body, weird as that sounds. When it comes down to being intimate with others, guys especially, I don't have the desire to do it. I try not lead guys on to think that I want something more from them or arouse them in any way. Things like brushing their arms, putting my hand on their leg(I never did that), joking in a flirty way, even compliments. Now, there are few occasions I will compliment a guy that might come off as if I'm flirty, but I'm really just messing around/being friendly. I don't make long eye contact with a guy either when I'm talking to them, like stare into his eyes. I don't want everyone to think I'm this girl who "has it all" or the girl everyone wants. I don't want to be that kind of person. I admit that I have flaws about myself and I can be clumsy/careless sometimes. My looks say nothing about my personality. Well, I know that most of the things I wrote here don't make a lot of sense and it might've sounded a lot like a rant. I know that it'll be hard for others to relate to this but I hope there isn't anything wrong if I don't flirt with someone I'm around with.
I'm not who a lot of people believe to think I am. Sometimes I think that I'm a guy living inside of a girl's body, weird as that sounds. When it comes down to being intimate with others, guys especially, I don't have the desire to do it. I try not lead guys on to think that I want something more from them or arouse them in any way. Things like brushing their arms, putting my hand on their leg(I never did that), joking in a flirty way, even compliments. Now, there are few occasions I will compliment a guy that might come off as if I'm flirty, but I'm really just messing around/being friendly. I don't make long eye contact with a guy either when I'm talking to them, like stare into his eyes. I don't want everyone to think I'm this girl who "has it all" or the girl everyone wants. I don't want to be that kind of person. I admit that I have flaws about myself and I can be clumsy/careless sometimes. My looks say nothing about my personality. Well, I know that most of the things I wrote here don't make a lot of sense and it might've sounded a lot like a rant. I know that it'll be hard for others to relate to this but I hope there isn't anything wrong if I don't flirt with someone I'm around with.