another thread entitled "shy men please answer" reminded me to start this thread...
Ok I wont go into all the details (even though its really good
..for real)...but this guy who i was like in love with who was in my class, i THOUGHT liked me. After what happened in there, it was really obvious. So much so, a liscenced professor in psychology and clinical psychologist flat out said, "i think he likes you." so i go months, almost a year... and dont see him again. But after our class i added him on myspace, and always hoped he noticed my profile, as a small way of staying in touch/hope. Well after guy friend after guy friend of mine asked about my love life (or lack of) all i could think to share was this guy who i was still NOT over... when they heard the story, they automatically responded, you have to tell him. you have to tell him how you feel. And they always joked, "hows your soon-to-be-husband"
Anyway i wrote this email, put my heart and soul into it, opened up and told him everything. I even explained, I hate how I have to write you an email, but i have no other way of seeing you, etc. I said you would make me the happiest girl ever if you just responded lets be friends...really. It was the best email ever, and if i got that, no matter from who (and even especially if i didnt know them) i would be flattered.
So adults think he likes me, every guy thinks he likes me and tells me to tell him how i feel, and all girls (almost) are jealous and like cant believe that happened in class. so i just feel like i came to the point where i had to tell him. I have NEVER felt this way about anyone.. I have never been more physically attracted, emotionally attracted, thought of a anotherguy or really human for that matter as i did of him. i k now thats a little much. but i never knew guys existed like him. hes just so.... everything..
So i send him my heart and soul in the email. And in response i get "I am sorry to say I dont share the same feelings. blehh blahh blehhh...I am sorry."
i just want to get some ones opinion on this..what exactly happened here?
My psychologist flat out said he likes me. My psychologist has told me things i did NOT want to hear before. He would not just say this to make me feel better (it was my idea to send the email, my psychologist only read it).... If a psychologist says he likes me and he doesnt what is wrong here. Not only that, but everyones mom grandma and dog said the same thing, and even more so.
I know you might have to know the entire situation to really help me with what i wanted to know...
but i am wondering...
is he shy? Guys on here said if they really liked a girl and if she flat out said she liked him.. they would still say no because they knew they couldnt be with them. He wasnt that shy in class, but a friend of his said "he is shy but its because he is a gentleman."
He's also been single longer than i have! And girls love him!
They say "oh you give the best hugs!!!" and "i want you in a strictly sexual way" lol.... soooooo uhhh
whch i dont think is true, because he comes from a traditional christian home. but you never know. i just usually have good gaydar. and i think my psychologist would pick up on that too.
then theres he is ASEXUAL...but even so, he would still have a gf by now.
So, like, what the heck....
I need some ones opinion on this. And be nice. I just had my heart broken by the only guy i ever thought i was in love with, I am forever changed by some one i barely knew. HELP? :(