It's the Little Things That Matter

los77

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Alright, I'm a 20 year old guy who has never been on a date or anything past that romantic envolvement. So recently I thought of my greatest accomplishments counting towards romance and at first I thought, "Wow, those are pathetic, you made a big deal over nothing." but then I thought, "Why is that pathetic if those accomplishments made me happy at the moment? They might be nothing for others but they're a pretty big deal for me."

So now on to the point of the thread. I'd like to hear what others went through that they might have thought is not a big deal for others but was a big deal for them. This is mostly meant for like accomplishment towards romance but I guess we could apply it towards other things as well, like making friends, etc..

So I guess I'll Start... I once asked the girl I liked for her phone number and she gave it to me. It was the first time I asked a girl for her number and though it led to nothing, it still gives me a confidence boost when I think about it.

Also, one time another girl I liked asked me to dance with her at a party, it was only a short time cuz she had to leave soon after but it was nice even though I dont know how to dance. That's the only time I've been asked to dance.

now you guy's go...
 

Kingdave

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they are a big deal to you because they just are but youve got way more bigger deals to come......im kinda the same way not good with girls but have got excited over some little stuff, and thought back and was like wow im an idiot. well im not im just not in a super rush to get some (i am kinda but yeh....) anyway. ive held a unimportant 30 sec convo with a girl and said "see you in class" and when we got there i didnt even talk to her, and this was kinda a continuous this sometimes with the same girl or different ones....i just kept trying kinda not overly though just multiples. i actually had a random intimate nite with this girl i kinda knew and couldnt get a hardon and couldnt get up enough to put the condom on, we didnt have sex. i went my whole high school either passing up on opportunities being picky or thinking their not important....to not getting much opportunities and when i did my nervousness or not being confident enough or intouch with myself enough made me unable to pull through. i never knew what to say like........what am i gonna say to carry this convo on. but if its just me and her i do just fine though. lol im made an idiot out of myself quite a bit i guess...but in the end its all worth it
 
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