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Preview: People who are sociable must have much in common with mainstream society - otherwise they wouldn't be accepted, or couldn't make others relate to them sufficiently to befriend them Wow, I totally disagree! Sure a lot of them do, and so do a bunch of people who aren't sociable... They ...

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Old 05-15-2009, 06:41 PM   #11 (permalink)
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People who are sociable must have much in common with mainstream society - otherwise they wouldn't be accepted, or couldn't make others relate to them sufficiently to befriend them
Wow, I totally disagree! Sure a lot of them do, and so do a bunch of people who aren't sociable... They just are too afraid to show it. Most people are "boring". Out of order! Some people are just super friendly, and at the same time strange, and everyone loves them! For people who are afraid to be judged, I really don't think we should be judging people like that...

Bleh I don't wanna argue, I just think you don't understand what I am tring to say. There's some things we'll just never agree on.

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Old 05-15-2009, 06:59 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Most people are "boring".They just are too afraid to show it.
To show what? Their boringness?
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Some people are just super friendly, and at the same time strange, and everyone loves them!
Yes, of course, this is reciprocal liking and by being 'super friendly' they fulfil a certain social demand, and have therefore something very important in common with most people. Moreover, most would reciprocate friendliness even without actually liking the 'friendly person' in question.

There are plenty of situations where society accepts people who - at the first sight - seem very different, but still have lots of mainstream qualities, like actually having the desire to meet others and act on it; or being friendly to others to mainly make themselves feel good and be liked back; or partaking in social activities that society deems essential for healthy interpersonal relationships, like going to parties, drinking with buddies/friends, chasing girls/guys, sharing mainstream interests, ...

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