Just need one friend!

bimbo45 · 11-13-2006

I just don't know what it is, i am so lonely so shy and very quiet. I am so bored! The people on this site just dont want to chat with me and if they do they seem to piss me off, ater the first chat. Boy do i have a problem!

abc1234 · 11-13-2006

I know how you feel.Being lonely is a terrible thing.I to have pretty much no friends and am alone more then i'd like

bimbo45 · 11-13-2006

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I know how you feel.Being lonely is a terrible thing.I to have pretty much no friends and am alone more then i'd like

At least some body knows how i feel it really sucks when your lonely and cant even start a conversation to make friend!

abc1234 · 11-13-2006

Yeah it sure does suck.Im probably gona end up being alone and lonely for pretty much my whole life.Even if i wasnt shy Id still have a hard time making friends im a super self conscience person.And tell my self that im not good enough for people or that they wouldnt like me anyway so why bother.Its a real ****ty thing to be so negative but ive done i for so long,that i dont know how to do otherwise.

themousethatroared · 11-14-2006

I try not to dwell on past difficuties with interactions with people on-line or in person. I have had my share of disapointments that I would like to forget but I have made at least one friend on-line and for that I count myself lucky. I will try to put the disapointments behind me and not let it poison me. If I dwell on the negative then I will not see what is positive. I would like to say that I do not dwell on the negative but I do. Hopefully I will get better at focusing on the bright side.

Y · 11-14-2006

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Originally Posted by bimbo45

I just don't know what it is, i am so lonely so shy and very quiet. I am so bored! The people on this site just dont want to chat with me and if they do they seem to piss me off, ater the first chat. Boy do i have a problem!

Yeah, i understand you, i have had a few "bad" chat experiences wtih people i met from this site. But i was not pissed off or anything, its just we both had nothing to say, lol. It was like:

Me: How old r u?
Him: 23 u?
Me: cool :roll: , im 22 ...
-----------------------5 mins of silence-----------------
Him: So what do you like?
Me: Hmmm...i dont know... (conversation killer :P)
----------------------10 mins of silence----------------
Me: So what did you do today?
Him: Not much... (another conversation killer)
-----------End of conversation---------

I used to think, id be easier for me to chat with someone from this site, well apperantly its not. :P

bimbo45 · 11-14-2006

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Originally Posted by Y

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Originally Posted by bimbo45

I just don't know what it is, i am so lonely so shy and very quiet. I am so bored! The people on this site just dont want to chat with me and if they do they seem to piss me off, ater the first chat. Boy do i have a problem!

Yeah, i understand you, i have had a few "bad" chat experiences wtih people i met from this site. But i was not pissed off or anything, its just we both had nothing to say, lol. It was like:I know exactley what you mean! I have had the same problem with people on this site.
It definatley is not easy!.

Me: How old r u?
Him: 23 u?
Me: cool :roll: , im 22 ...
-----------------------5 mins of silence-----------------
Him: So what do you like?
Me: Hmmm...i dont know... (conversation killer :P)
----------------------10 mins of silence----------------
Me: So what did you do today?
Him: Not much... (another conversation killer)
-----------End of conversation---------

I used to think, id be easier for me to chat with someone from this site, well apperantly its not. :P

bimbo45 · 11-14-2006

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Originally Posted by Y

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Originally Posted by bimbo45

I just don't know what it is, i am so lonely so shy and very quiet. I am so bored! The people on this site just dont want to chat with me and if they do they seem to piss me off, ater the first chat. Boy do i have a problem!

Yeah, i understand you, i have had a few "bad" chat experiences wtih people i met from this site. But i was not pissed off or anything, its just we both had nothing to say, lol. It was like:

Me: How old r u?
Him: 23 u?
Me: cool :roll: , im 22 ...
-----------------------5 mins of silence-----------------
Him: So what do you like?
Me: Hmmm...i dont know... (conversation killer :P)
----------------------10 mins of silence----------------
Me: So what did you do today?
Him: Not much... (another conversation killer)
-----------End of conversation---------

I used to think, id be easier for me to chat with someone from this site, well apperantly its not. :P

xkiss_me_nowx · 11-14-2006

oh i know ive had that. so annoying.
but luckily one or two people on here ive met are good talkers.. so the conv didnt run dry haha.

Y · 11-15-2006

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Originally Posted by bimbo45

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Originally Posted by Y

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Originally Posted by bimbo45

I just don't know what it is, i am so lonely so shy and very quiet. I am so bored! The people on this site just dont want to chat with me and if they do they seem to piss me off, ater the first chat. Boy do i have a problem!

Yeah, i understand you, i have had a few "bad" chat experiences wtih people i met from this site. But i was not pissed off or anything, its just we both had nothing to say, lol. It was like:I know exactley what you mean! I have had the same problem with people on this site.
It definatley is not easy!.

Me: How old r u?
Him: 23 u?
Me: cool :roll: , im 22 ...
-----------------------5 mins of silence-----------------
Him: So what do you like?
Me: Hmmm...i dont know... (conversation killer :P)
----------------------10 mins of silence----------------
Me: So what did you do today?
Him: Not much... (another conversation killer)
-----------End of conversation---------

I used to think, id be easier for me to chat with someone from this site, well apperantly its not. :P

Lol, if you remember the conversation from above, it may be me who you talked,

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