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Old 03-11-2005
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For me life doesn't matter anymore.. I find that nothing i do seems to make a difference in life, people tell me that life will get better, but WHEN?? i have been waiting 10 years for life to get better, but it has gotten worse. Its to the point where nobody or anything matters anymore. there is nothing that can be done for me to recover from this that is how bad it is, and for those who think that things are going to get better, and i should just learn to "accept" youself as is, can jump off a bridge because i don't want to hear it anymore..
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If you don't want to hear it anymore, then why keep posting?. What is it you DO want to hear?. We can't offer some amazing cure, we can only sit and read your texts, offer some advice, which youv'e probably heard most of by now. So please, Tell us what it is you want to hear?
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Old 03-11-2005
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just tired of living..

just tell me its alright to kill myself
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Old 03-11-2005
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What therapy have you tried??????????????
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Old 03-11-2005
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everything under the sun, over 15 different consellors
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I wouldn't tell anyone its alright to kill themselves.
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Old 03-11-2005
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Old 03-11-2005
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Old 03-11-2005
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i feel the same way you do, Life. I hate most everyone because I hate myself and it shows. People have no respect for me because I have none for myself. I have no friends ( i know it's my fault) and feel a burden to my parents (whom I still live with). i find it hard to get out of bed because i know today will be just like all the rest. if you really want to kill yourself, no one is going to stop you. just make sure you pick an effective method
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Old 03-12-2005
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I don't have any hobbies though

And i haven't tried the hypmotism, and crap like that, i can't afford it
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Old 03-12-2005
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Life, its not that I don't really know, but just want to clarify, what exactly is so bad about your life? I find it it helps if you write your problems down, you can help cure them better.
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Old 03-12-2005
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Lifesnotfair- I guarantee you haven't tried "everything under the sun". You may have tried a lot of different stuff, seen many different people, but that doesn't mean you're incurable or can't be helped. I'm no psycologist (although I'm studying to be one) but from your posts and even your screen name, I can tell you are playing a lot of self destructive mind games.

First of all, drop the label "social phobic". By thinking of yourself that way, it makes it seem as if a phobia is real and tangible. It's not. Think of it this way- in certain situations and by thinking different thought, you experience fear. Not only that, but you probably fear your fear.

Now, if you could just think of those emotions as just that, emotions, you wouldn't be thinking of killing yourself. But you obviously aren't thinking that way- as I said, you are playing destructive mind games. To give an obvious example, you are playing the "It's not Fair for Me to Have These Problems" Game.

I know how you can be helped right now. Not necessarily about the social phobia, but about your depression. You should talk to me. Do you have an IM screen name or an email? And remember, your emotions are just emotions :wink:
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i agree with everybody here, but mostly Raoul. Think of how lucky you are to be able to have this experience. Maybe you should find some hobbies you already have. For example, visiting forums is a hobby, even if you don't think of it that way. Also, I could recommend writing, and fictionpress.com (sorry if this's spam).

my philosophy is "you can always kill yourself, so why kill yourself?". whenever you want to, say you'll just do it later. Procrastinating helps!

i agree life seems hopeless and mechanic in the long run, (i.e. school, work, death) but who knows, it may have some surprises to offer. like the people that are going to miss you on the internet, including me. Do it for the people!
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Old 03-12-2005
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Boo-****ing-hoo.
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did you join just to insult?
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Old 03-12-2005
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Hi PisceanWisdom,

Just ignore the idiots that do come to just insult people.

Obviously they have nothing better to do, they are probably computer geeks, sitting behind their pc with no life.
I am a lady but if I met up with Timebomb in an alley, his balls would be removed within a few seconds 8O

Again don't take any notice of geeks like him - his new ID should be NoBalls

annie...a strong aussie lady :wink:
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Old 03-15-2005
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Quote:
Originally Posted by annie
Hi PisceanWisdom,

Just ignore the idiots that do come to just insult people.

Obviously they have nothing better to do, they are probably computer geeks, sitting behind their pc with no life.
I am a lady but if I met up with Timebomb in an alley, his balls would be removed within a few seconds 8O

Again don't take any notice of geeks like him - his new ID should be NoBalls

annie...a strong aussie lady :wink:
Look who's dishing out the childish insults. How hypocritical can you be, Annie? I suffer from many, if not more, of the same problems as lifesnotfair. However, he starts a thread on the internet [with complete strangers] saying, "Oh, life's not fair! And don't tell me it will all get better! :cry: because it won't." Is there any purpose of bitching and moaning if you aren't looking to get help?

It seems to me he just wants attention and nothing more considering he has "heard it all before".

But, I don't know. Maybe us internet geeks have a different outlook on things

:wink:
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Old 03-15-2005
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maybe YOU do
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Old 03-15-2005
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Ok, so..What is it you are trying to accomplish by posting your feelings of despair? Do you want sympathy? If so, it would be much easier just asking in place of your 'dramatics' antics.

You apparently don't want help. What is it you want or hope to accomplish by posting what you did? :?:
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