Lifes not fair

sonia

Member
I can give you a thousand reasons why life has been unfair to me , perhaps so can you. The truth is its unfair to be born here . With the rising population and scarce resources I dont understand what parents were thinking. Today my in laws are pressurising me for a baby . On what grounds shall I get a baby in this world , what is it that I want the baby to see the polluted environment, the rude people , people who don't understand the fact that freedom is the basic need for any kind of growth, lack of education, drinking water , healthy air to breathe, food ... Please explain. Today my mother in law even forces me to wear clothes she likes . Being a woman I was always taught to obey and now suddenly my husband tells me to give back... Im tired reallly ... I fail to understand the very reason for my existence
 

Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
Life ain't fair at the best of time.

If ah knew the purpose of existence, ah'd tell ya. But I don't really know that one, myself. Still trying to figure it out.

Though, don't feel pressured into having a child, just to please the in-laws. Having a child is a lotta responsibility. But I see yer point about why anyone would want to bring a child into the world, given it's current state.

Also, about the clothes thing, if you don't like something, don't wear it. If it's not "you" then wear something you like.

At the end of the day, you can please everyone. And sometimes, you have to put yerself first, as selfish as that sounds.

Don't feel pressured into things. Though, it's easier said than done when so much is expect of you.

Did all that make sense...? :confused:

Anyway, sorry your feelin' the way ya do. Though, I can somewhat relate, so yer not alone.
 

MotherWolff

Banned
I can give you a thousand reasons why life has been unfair to me , perhaps so can you. The truth is its unfair to be born here . With the rising population and scarce resources I dont understand what parents were thinking. Today my in laws are pressurising me for a baby . On what grounds shall I get a baby in this world , what is it that I want the baby to see the polluted environment, the rude people , people who don't understand the fact that freedom is the basic need for any kind of growth, lack of education, drinking water , healthy air to breathe, food ... Please explain. Today my mother in law even forces me to wear clothes she likes . Being a woman I was always taught to obey and now suddenly my husband tells me to give back... Im tired reallly ... I fail to understand the very reason for my existence

AAAAWWWW! I just wanna hug you and tell you, "Life may not be fair, but its up to You to seek out the good and meaning of life...for You"

I know you can do it, sweetheart!:thumbup:
 

sonia

Member
Hey guys I feel much better reading what you have written... I have to take a stand here ... there would be animosity but Im sure its worth the freedom you get in return. As they say, no one gives you freedom you have to snatch it from them ... Thanks alot
 

MotherWolff

Banned
Hey guys I feel much better reading what you have written... I have to take a stand here ... there would be animosity but Im sure its worth the freedom you get in return. As they say, no one gives you freedom you have to snatch it from them ... Thanks alot

Awesome goal, sonia!:applause:

Keep at that goal, please. And ignore those who pull you down. Sonia, you can do ANYTHING you put your mind to. I believe in you and any other positron people! You can do this!:bigsmile:
 

springk

Well-known member
You are the only person who can decide for yourself, and life is unfair, it seems most of the time though if not always.
 
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