PrincessKitty
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Am I doing something wrong?
I'm 22 years old and in May next year I will be 23. Still living my mum.
I just bought over £500 on clothes because none fit me anymore, even my shoes. Anyway my mum found out and we had an argument about it.
She always checks how much money I have in my back account (and yes I changed my password now she can't any more)
Just recently I found out that my real dad is not my dad at all because he told me and the whole family told me too.
So didn't get much sleep, so my family is complaning because I don't have a normal sleeping pattern.
I have to admit I do have insomnia so any stress, or when I'm ill. I don't sleep.
I do get to my normal sleeping pattern within a few days. But my family is still complaining about it and it's "not normal"
I went to three colleges and my mum took over on all of them, and how I should spend the time in college and getting a job (all of them were doing performing arts and music). She also tried in university too (another music course) because I didn't graduated and I've quit, because I didn't like the course.
My whole family even my mums friends were having a go at me because "you should stay and will get you a good job"
I didn't want to because I didn't like the course.
Also I don't have many friends where I live only the internet so I spend my free time on the internet.
Furthermore I'm doing TEFL course online, and now my family and especially my mum is complaining on how I never go out and I never work.
Yes I don't go out as much, but I'm doing a course online.
Recently too I've been on a date, my mum was asking questions "who is this guy? where did you meet him? how are you going to meet him? when will you be coming home? how long will you plan to stay out?"
We always argue about that I'm an adult and she can't treat me like a kid anymore.
Everytime, she rings up my grandma or her friends and they will have a big go at me. :kickingmyself:
Now we had another one and I finally told her on what I think instead of her. She dislikes it.
Now that I seem to be the bad guy because I'm an adult and I want to do things on my own.
I know I'm complaining and whining at the moment and I'm very sorry about that. But I'm just fed up.
I'm 22 years old and in May next year I will be 23. Still living my mum.
I just bought over £500 on clothes because none fit me anymore, even my shoes. Anyway my mum found out and we had an argument about it.
She always checks how much money I have in my back account (and yes I changed my password now she can't any more)
Just recently I found out that my real dad is not my dad at all because he told me and the whole family told me too.
So didn't get much sleep, so my family is complaning because I don't have a normal sleeping pattern.
I have to admit I do have insomnia so any stress, or when I'm ill. I don't sleep.
I do get to my normal sleeping pattern within a few days. But my family is still complaining about it and it's "not normal"
I went to three colleges and my mum took over on all of them, and how I should spend the time in college and getting a job (all of them were doing performing arts and music). She also tried in university too (another music course) because I didn't graduated and I've quit, because I didn't like the course.
My whole family even my mums friends were having a go at me because "you should stay and will get you a good job"
I didn't want to because I didn't like the course.
Also I don't have many friends where I live only the internet so I spend my free time on the internet.
Furthermore I'm doing TEFL course online, and now my family and especially my mum is complaining on how I never go out and I never work.
Yes I don't go out as much, but I'm doing a course online.
Recently too I've been on a date, my mum was asking questions "who is this guy? where did you meet him? how are you going to meet him? when will you be coming home? how long will you plan to stay out?"
We always argue about that I'm an adult and she can't treat me like a kid anymore.
Everytime, she rings up my grandma or her friends and they will have a big go at me. :kickingmyself:
Now we had another one and I finally told her on what I think instead of her. She dislikes it.
Now that I seem to be the bad guy because I'm an adult and I want to do things on my own.
I know I'm complaining and whining at the moment and I'm very sorry about that. But I'm just fed up.
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