Love-Shyness

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Okay. So recently and old friend emailed me and said that she was talking about me to her coworker and now he wants to meet me. What do I think? I said I don't think anything. Why? Cause I go into a panic. I start thinking all kinds of negative things like, "suppose he meets me and does not like what he see? What do we talk about? Oh my God I need to really fix myself up (I am a plain jane), & etc." So she told me to check him out on FB. I did, he is also shy, nice looking. But I wonder where do I go from here?

Have any of you felt like this? How do you deal?

Li said:

Okay. So recently and old friend emailed me and said that she was talking about me to her coworker and now he wants to meet me. What do I think? I said I don't think anything. Why? Cause I go into a panic. I start thinking all kinds of negative things like, "suppose he meets me and does not like what he see? What do we talk about? Oh my God I need to really fix myself up (I am a plain jane), & etc." So she told me to check him out on FB. I did, he is also shy, nice looking. But I wonder where do I go from here?

Have any of you felt like this? How do you deal?

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Well, he wants to meet with you, so that's a good start. He is shy, too, according to his Facebook, so he's probably feeling just as nervous meeting you as you are meeting him. I understand you're feeling a bit nervous about it but just be yourself and I'm sure you'll be okay.

why does the life have to suck so much for some people :: im 26 and never had any real relationship in my life,cant be approached as well,because if i feel cornered straight away ill gonna go into anxiety mode,then worse sweating and blushing ,id imagine given plenty of time i could easily develop feelings for someone special and be comfortable around,but is there any girls in this age left that would want an emotional train wreck in their life.