for me at least..what i am terrible at is KEEPING them...maintaining relationships is relatively easy when you are in school or when you work with someone every day but the difficulty arises when you dont have these forced everyday 'social' activities to keep you bonded with people...i have found that when you have to actually reach out and plan to hang out with people to maintain these relationships, thats when it becomes a problem especially if you are introverted and have a general lack of hobbies..thats what my problem is, i dont enjoy the bar or club scene and simply hanging out and socializing is tiring to me so ummm... ive tried to base my social get togethers around board games or certain activities but that never lasts, it always reverts back to the tired aspect of 'hanging out'...i run out of things to say and these get togethers become boring so i stop going, the time spreads further apart when i see people and the friendship ends..every single time..
anyone else have this problem?again, i only seem to enjoy 3-4 things in this life and most of those are solitary pursuits lol..so how are us introverts supposed to maintain these relationships?
this is meant more towards the late 20s and older crowd
anyone else have this problem?again, i only seem to enjoy 3-4 things in this life and most of those are solitary pursuits lol..so how are us introverts supposed to maintain these relationships?
this is meant more towards the late 20s and older crowd