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Old 03-20-2010
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Anyone here in their 30's and still virgins? If so....why?

Is it lack of interest or attraction to anyone, you're waiting for a specific person/situation, you have severe anxiety and fear--and if so do you know why, or is it just bad luck possibly?

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Old 03-20-2010
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I'm sure I'll get there eventually.

I haven't spoken to a female outside my family for like 2 years.
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Old 03-20-2010
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Not yet....but at 23...i'm doing damn well to eventually get it over there.
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Old 03-20-2010
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Exclusion never felt so good. Ha Ha
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Old 03-20-2010
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Yep... In a couple months I'll be 32 and I still am.

Basically, its social anxiety mixed with shyness around women. I've never even been on a date before.
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Old 03-20-2010

Well I am 29 and will be 30 next year. Unless I meet a women and hit it of with her
I will be a 30 year old virgin.
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Old 03-20-2010
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Well guys take this fact for solace. Isaac Newton was a virgin his entire life and look at what that got him. haha
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Old 03-20-2010
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for me its a combination of all those things you mentioned. Okay, so I'm probably not the best looking chap in the world.....combine that with being shy/introverted and sprinkle a bit of avoident personality disorder. Mix in other factors like fear of rejection/not meeting the right person or meeting the right person but there're with someone etc, etc and before you know it you're 30 and oh crap-I'm still in this situation.
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Old 03-20-2010

Looks like it's off to the Bunny Ranch for me haha.
Old 03-20-2010

1 girl at 29 isnt much better :(
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Old 03-20-2010
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Not a virgin, but I've never been in a relationship. I once thought that loosing 'it' would be a milestone in my life, but it wasn't. I imagine that beeing loved (and loving someone) will be.

Everyone should at least have sex once before they enter their first serious relationship, in my honest opinion. Sadly, girls don't care if you're a great guy (many guys with social anxiety are) when you're a virgin.
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