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    "you never talk"

    yes heard it again today!! I feel like I have been talking more than ever the past few weeks but apparently I still "never talk." I think there are two kinds of people who say this: the ones who are trying to talk to you and don't really mean to be mean, and the jerks. This was one of the...
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    what has helped me so far...and what I am trying now

    I used to have SA so bad that I wouldn't leave my mother's house or even answer the phone. Now (at 31!) I am finally able to hold a job and have my own place. I still have a long way to go - still don't have any real friends or feel confident enough to date, but I thought I would share some of...
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    Hello everyone

    I am 31 years old and half lost about half my life to SA. Only in the last few years have I been able to overcome a lot of my anxiety (through exposure and a little CBT). Finished college, and am holding a job but have few real friends and never had a boyfriend. So now I have had it. I am...
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