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My parents never talked about sex, dating, friends or girls ever!! Not one word was ever spoken on any of this, and to this day it really pisses me off, because I think the fact that they didn't played a big roll in my psycological development. I felt like I must be a freak or something, and...

In America it is no problem to talk to strangers if you have good converstion skills and they seem open to converstion, but I've read in the UK it is considered rude to try to talk to someone you don't know. (Like trying to make small talk with a stranger on a train for example.) I read that...

"JUST BE YOURSELF" or "GET OUT THERE AND START MEETING PEOPLE". I have had it with people that say these things to me. They just don't understand. It's not that simple. Me being myself is the guy that goes home from work and plays with model trains. "Going out", what ever that means , would be...

Are you too shy for this too, like me ? Do you feel like a fool and people will laugh at you? Dancing is an activity that I wish I were good at. I understand it's a good way to entertain woman, and they really like a man that will take them out to dance. I wish I had learned to dance as a...

I really hate having my photograph taken. It really freaks me out knowing that others can see it. I'm so shy I don't like to see my photo. I haven't allowed it in over 20 years. I'm so self concious. I don't mind looking in the mirror though.

DO YOU :?: :?: I do. I've read that this common for very shy people. I talk out loud to myself (when I'm alone and shure no one else can hear.) Make believe converstions, like I'm talking to a friend. I'm trying to stop this bad habit. I think its damaging behavior in the long run. Then...

I would really like to find a nice woman to spend the rest of my life with. But i'm soo quiet that it either scares them or they think im wierd, (I know not to stare at woman in public and not say something...this gives them a total panic attack). Im afraid too really try, because my behavor...

I've been shy since I hit the first grade. Then the kids were mean to me because I was fat. These mean kids thought me to hate myself. This prevented me form making friends with the few kids that may have liked me. So I had little positive interactions. Therefore almost 100% of my interaction...