Originally Posted by recluse
Why the f#ck do most guys treat women like a piece of meat?
One o'r two guys i work with are always talking about the girls who work in the office in a degrading manner, and i'm sick and tired of listening to them going on about how ''she has t#ts you would want to bury your face in'' o'r ''she has an ugly face but i'd still f#ck her with a body like that!''
I'm so sick and tired of listening to this shit! I'm nothing like them. What makes it worse is that these guys are in relationships. I mean how the **** would they like it if their girlfriends were talked about like that, and how would they feel if their girlfriends were lusting after other guys!?
It's laughable almost because one guy in his 3o's thinks he's some kind of Cassanova, yet you can tell that he's all talk. He's such a gobby little shit!
It's so unfair because i don't have anyone and i know that i would treat a girl with respect.
You carry the burden of caring for their feelings. This is a good quality to have, man, so don't lose it! However, you gotta see it their way - they're living a little 'lighter'. They're just out for a good time, so though these jokes may seem offensive, they're not intended to be perceived this way.
Like I said, never lose that quality - but, you can always try seeing it their way a little bit. Because of the burden and heaviness that weighs down on you, you could be easily mistaken for somebody who's depressed - and therefore, probably not a guy who women would fight over. Always remember (as a side note) that most women are attracted to confidence - and if you care for their feelings AND have confidence, you'll be a package they can't resist!