Yes I am a guy, yes I have social phobia, yes I find it impossible to get a girl but does that make me a rapist or serial killer? Hell no! I would never harm another individual, even when horny clueless *******s like yourself were beating me up to impress the girls I wouldnt raise my fists in anger because of the way I was brought up. Maybe that was wrong yes, maybe I shouldve been more violent and maybe it wouldve done ****s like you some good to be giving a beating.
I have a bad tendency to generalise sometimes, but with this post I have no hesitation with regards to that because you my friend are now the self appointed King of generalisations. You banter on about how all socialphobic males are a danger to women.... how the hell do you think that makes us men feel? We are honestly making an effort here! Its damn frustrating to feel unwanted and so lonely but that doesnt mean we will all seek to harm women or anyone for that matter!
Originally Posted by Question
Women, know that the men who pose a genuine threat to you are not the cads who constantly ask you out and flirt with you -- but the men with social anxiety disorder who are scared of you.
Never have I heard such BS! For starters your post sounds like some kind of twisted pick up line justifying your own sexual wants. Read between the lines and your saying "Stay away from shy guys and take more notice of my flirtacious comments in the bar"
And secondly your statement is in fact proven to be false. Where did you pull this out of? What hidden vindeta do you possibly have against guys with SP to come on here and post this?
here are some facts that support the theory that in fact men with socialphobia are less likely to commit rape.
"The National Crime Victimization Survey indicates that for 1992-1993, 92% of rapes were committed by known assailants" do some research and you will find that a lot of guys with SP do in fact not even know any females because they spend so much time alone in their homes
"About half of all rapes and sexual assaults against women are committed by friends and acquaintances, and 26% are by intimate partners."
"90 percent of rape victims attending colleges and universities knew the offenders. (Bureau of Justice Statistics. December 2000. The Sexual Victimization of College Women. Washington, DC: US Dept. of Justice" - a lot of guys like me are practically invisible to women
"Strangers are the perpetrators in 23 percent of female stalking incidences. Current or former husbands are the perpetrators 38 percent of the time; current or former co-habitating partners are the perpetrators 10 percent of the time; and current or former boyfriends are the perpetrators 14 percent of the time. (National Institute of Justice 2001. Stalking and Domestic Violence: The Third Report to Congress Under the Violence Against women Act. Washington, DC: US Depart. of Justice." - that means that 3/4 of stalking cases are committed by current partners etc not sex starved socialphobic strangers
"Male athletes in Division 1 schools make up only 2-3% of the entire student body, yet they account for 19-22% of sexual assaults (Schwartz & DeKeseredy, 1997" - why dont you go onto some athletic websites and tell them to change their wicked athletic way while your out pointing the finger?
"Schwartz & DeKeseredy (1997) discussed how men adhering to overly rigid masculine identities are more likely to hold attitudes that contribute to rape. These include:
· Strong needs to appear “manly”
· Restricting emotions
· Displaying toughness and aggression
· Need for achievement/status
· Holding non-relational attitudes toward sex
· Engaging in homophobic attitudes/behaviors "
Those attitudes are more commingly found in testorirone charged arrogant males who are more likely to be the ones using pick up lines than socialphobic men who are too scared to go out.
Im sick of being judged by people like you. Other socialphobic guys out there, read those stats Ive posted and rest assured that your not a sexual predator waiting to happen. Just be happy that we arent destructive ****s like the guy who started this topic