Hello Y'all!
Word to the wise. If you're afraid of women, there's a tried and true method of getting over the fear -- visiting a prostitute. In the thread "ARE U TIRED OF BEING A VIRGIN DUE TO UR SOCIAL PHOBIA," one fellow reports: "I waited till i was 20, but visiting a prostitute took away years of paranoia." There's nothing quite like visiting a prostitute to crawl out from under your mother's skirt.
I personally have never visited a prostitute, but I used to be anxious around women and now I am totally smoove. How? I did some intense therapy -- visiting strip clubs. Luckily for me, I live in a major southern US city well known as having more strip clubs than Vegas. It put a major dent in my wallet (they'll want to bankrupt you), but so would drugs and head shrinkers. The dif being, I recovered with the strippers.
Strippers are used to playing therapist. I'm totally up front with them about why I am there -- I tell them "I grew up in a very reserved family, and I didn't have enough experiences with women, to the point that I became very uptight and anxious with them. Now I want to look at your boobies" The strippers tell me: "Yawn, half the guys in here are guys who finally decided to get over their gynephobia. What do you want me to tell you about social interactions? Wanna lap dance?"
The first time you go to a strip club, you will take dances from any girl that sits on your lap no matter how she looks. By the third time, you will walk right up to the most gorgeous stripper with long legs, and big fake breasts and start talking. Now, I don't even pay for lap dances, they give them to me for free. I talk my way into their panties. I have nothing but love for the strippers.
Talk to the managers, talk to the bouncers, talk to the bar tenders, talk to the customers -- it will give you a different perspective on life and a newfound appreciation for your masculinity. The men who work there are about the most uninhibited guys around women that you'll ever meet. There's a reason for that.
Also, do your homework before you go -- read "G-strings and Sympathy" describing the industry and, in particular, the men who go to strip clubs. They say they go "to relax" i.e. to perform cognitive behavioral therapy on themselves. It's no coincidence that the industry sprung up during the '80's concurrently with the development of modern sexual harassment law which set up barriers of hostility and ill feeling between men and women everywhere else.
Now, I no longer go to strip clubs, but I still carry with me the lessons I learned there. I still walk up to gorgeous ladies -- at church, at the mall, at work -- and look at them and talk to them like I would a stripper. There really is nothing to fear.
I owe everything to you, Aphrodite, Bambi, Chocolate, Desire, Eden, Fabulous, Gypsy, Heaven, Isis, Jezebel, Kitten, Luscious, Mocha, Nasty, Opal, Panther, Queen, Raven, Spice, Temptation, Unique, Vixen, Willow, Xena, Yasmin, and ESPECIALLY Zoe!