Mixed messages

Rise Against

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There is this girl who sits behind me in one of my classes and she is also on the track team. She used to have a crush on me, but that was when i was really depressed and kind of messed up in the head... so i blew it. Anyways she is in my baking class and i want to make friends with her (not girlfriend, i am dating another girl) because it is the most boring class ever and i want someone to talk to... i just sit and watch the clock, literally.

The reason why i am writing this is because she is giving me major mixed messages. I am so confused. We make eye contact a lot, like 5+ times a day. She used to tell me that i should talk more. So the other day i tried to start a conversation with her on myspace, i said "hey how are you?" and she never responded. Then i tried it again a few days later, and she still ignored me... She's not the kind of person who would ignore me just to be mean. Ive even tried to start conversations with her face to face, but she is really shy around me, and im the ONLY person she is shy around. She used to flirt with me, but that was when i was depressed and basically like a zombie... Now she ignores me. Does she think that i am intimidating? Is she embarrassed to be around me? Is she mad at me? Does she think im annoying? I think she is probably just trying to avoid another awkward moment... because we have had a few together.

I really want her to give me another chance to be friends because i am a completely different person now, and i know that she would like my personality.
 

Perfidion

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If she used to have a crush on you, and you're currently dating another girl, maybe she's feeling a little... scorned. Hell hath no fury and all that.
 

Perfidion

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Yes, but is she dating someone because she wants to, or because she's trying to make you jealous? Women are horribly complicated creatures, and their motivations are ever an enigma.
 
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