dannyboy65
Well-known member
A little over a week ago I broke up with my girlfriend. It was hard and hurt a lot. I lost a lot of sleep and barely ate anything, in fact I still barely eat or sleep. I went off my medication without telling anyone and my mind went into a mess.
Well I decided I am going to move on with my life. Meet new girls, do what I want, be who I want to be, explore, and just enjoy life. I'm not looking at this break up as a bad thing either though. She helped me learn a lot of things. She taught me how to not be clingy, how to explore, she gave me the experience of being a parent, she also taught me how to seek out help and control my emotions better. Although she wants to erase her path with me and focus on the future, I will remember this relationship as a learning experience and use what I learned in future relationships.
I'm now super close with all of my friends, instead of going out only on Wednesday D&D nights with my friends, I go out about 3 times a week. For once I am not a hermit and staying at home playing video games, hiding. Now I prefer to go out and explore the world and make stories to tell, and have a good time with friends. I have also went back on my medication, next I need to try and start eating healthier again.
But in conclusion, this break up was bad but also good. It's sad we had to end it, but I learned a lot and how to be a better person. Even though life kicked me in the teeth I didn't get angry at no one, or harm myself. Sure I vented a lot to people, on this site and with close friends. I only did that though so I could let it out and not harm anyone or myself. So I wanted to thank everyone on this site who helped me through this tough part of my life.
Well I decided I am going to move on with my life. Meet new girls, do what I want, be who I want to be, explore, and just enjoy life. I'm not looking at this break up as a bad thing either though. She helped me learn a lot of things. She taught me how to not be clingy, how to explore, she gave me the experience of being a parent, she also taught me how to seek out help and control my emotions better. Although she wants to erase her path with me and focus on the future, I will remember this relationship as a learning experience and use what I learned in future relationships.
I'm now super close with all of my friends, instead of going out only on Wednesday D&D nights with my friends, I go out about 3 times a week. For once I am not a hermit and staying at home playing video games, hiding. Now I prefer to go out and explore the world and make stories to tell, and have a good time with friends. I have also went back on my medication, next I need to try and start eating healthier again.
But in conclusion, this break up was bad but also good. It's sad we had to end it, but I learned a lot and how to be a better person. Even though life kicked me in the teeth I didn't get angry at no one, or harm myself. Sure I vented a lot to people, on this site and with close friends. I only did that though so I could let it out and not harm anyone or myself. So I wanted to thank everyone on this site who helped me through this tough part of my life.
