My ex-girlfriend

Hi,guys!Im 28 male and kinda new here.
I want to share my story and maybe get some of your thoughts.
So here goes..
I have social phobia but somehow i managed to get girlfriend.We met online 10 years ago.Been together for like 6 - 7 years.Had our ups and downs ofcourse,but she loved me and i loved her..tho she always said she loved me more than i love her.
Well anyways- now its over. She left me half a year ago.She said that im not earning enough money,not ready for babies and she does not like apartment we live in.
The thing i cant get over is that every day she said to me how much she loves me and that i should never leave her.And then one day its her leaving me.
Is this common these days?
Wasn't it like working together to sort things out ,or was it one side does nothing and asks for other to do all?
When i told her this ,she replied that she is doing her part by being nice and lovely.

Ok.Im just angry here.Thru out this half a year,she texted me some stuff, like song lyrics and we talked time to time.She has new boyfriend,apartment.And she asked me to stay friends.Like hell we will.Changed my phone number recently.No more mindf*ck.

Im still getting nightmares almost every day.6 years are long time.My brain cant recover from her yet.
Never told her i have phobia.Was thinking about it but..whats the use?she whould feel sorry for me?help me?doubt it.
I wear my mask pretty well even if my insides are boiling.

Have a good day all who is done reading:thumbup:

You did well to remove her from your life. Take your time mourning the relationship, cry it out, yell it out. Get busy with work, hobbies, trying new things, spending time with people you trust.

My guess is that she ended it abruptly because she was already getting involved with that other guy. Sucks, but feel free to vent all you want/need.

Thank you, guys.Appreciate your thoughts,suggestions.

Oh , and i can totally relate to marriege thing ,onlyhuman.I Did the same thing.

And Sacrament,you probably right about her being involved with the guy.
She always got mad if there was any female friends on my facebook or whatever.
But she kept contact with all her male friends and even ex boyfriend.

I didnt want to be a psycho and stalk her every facebook move.I trusted her.I thought there was no need for that.

The fact that she kept in touch with her ex-boyfriend and didn't 'allow' you to have female friends says a lot about how insecure and unreliable she was. Don't let a significant other treat you in any way you don't want to be treated.

It sounds like, by her own admission, she wasn't really bringing anything to the relationship except her body and materialistic demands. You'll find someone better than that.

Thank you Hoth,Sacrament.Your words mean a lot.