So I found out my mom who just turned 55 has a tumor in the middle part of her head. It sucks, because it was most likely from her smoking. I love her very much, she always had a way to make me feel better. The doctors said that the news isn't really good; so we don't know how long she might live for.
She forgets the year, day and time. She still remembers us thankfully. But she struggles with using the microwave, turning on the t.v, getting up and walking around a lot. And whenever she talks she sounds like she's always confused in a weird way. Though it's probably the medication their giving her to subside the pain.
She complains a lot that her head hurts, but there's isn't much we can do at the moment but do our best to make her live happy. It's sad, when I was 7 I was looking up in the stars one night in my kitchen window and I felt the presence of her father/ my grandpa who passed away when I was 2 months old.
My mom came over and asked what I was doing, I told her I was talking to him and she asked; what's he saying. He then told me to ask my mom if she was happy and when I turned asking her that question...she freaked out and ran away. I know its hard to believe this but it's true and it actually happened.
Later she told that her father would always would say that to her whenever he was around. Who knows, maybe I somehow heard it as a baby and remember it...or possibly I was really talking to him.
So, I want to give my mom the best times she can get because I don't want to think for the worst but I know that we'll all be there to make her happy. That's all that matters in the end.
She forgets the year, day and time. She still remembers us thankfully. But she struggles with using the microwave, turning on the t.v, getting up and walking around a lot. And whenever she talks she sounds like she's always confused in a weird way. Though it's probably the medication their giving her to subside the pain.
She complains a lot that her head hurts, but there's isn't much we can do at the moment but do our best to make her live happy. It's sad, when I was 7 I was looking up in the stars one night in my kitchen window and I felt the presence of her father/ my grandpa who passed away when I was 2 months old.
My mom came over and asked what I was doing, I told her I was talking to him and she asked; what's he saying. He then told me to ask my mom if she was happy and when I turned asking her that question...she freaked out and ran away. I know its hard to believe this but it's true and it actually happened.
Later she told that her father would always would say that to her whenever he was around. Who knows, maybe I somehow heard it as a baby and remember it...or possibly I was really talking to him.
So, I want to give my mom the best times she can get because I don't want to think for the worst but I know that we'll all be there to make her happy. That's all that matters in the end.