Need a Friend

Kepler

New member
I feel very alone right now. It feels like I'm a bubble of anxiety and suppressed emotion that is about to burst. In fact, it might have burst a little bit yesterday, but I don't really want to talk about that.

I like to think I'm a pretty unique person, but the problem with that is I start wonder if there's anyone else out there like me. I just need someone to talk to about a similar interest. "What sort of similar interest?" you ask. How about two little Canadian TV shows, Murdoch Mysteries and Flashpoint? Somehow I don't think there will be a lot of people on here who have seen those. I also like Lord of the Rings, Doctor Who, and animals. I really love animals, all animals. Want to talk snakes? I'll talk snakes. (I feel like I'm some sort of advertisement now...)

Have I gone on too long? Should I add more? Should I just delete this whole thing? There goes my social anxiety talking...

Okay, I'll wrap this up. I don't really know the methods of communication on here, so you'll have to give me a hint. Anyway, thanks for reading, and let me know if you think we could get along.
 

Deco

Well-known member
Welcome to the forum!
I hope you enjoy discussing these things and talking about your interests here!

I know how that feels. Idk even my close friends seemto be very distant now.
People change so much.
I see people from all around the world going through the same thing. Things like SA and depression seem to be like a global phenomena.
Idk but I think technology is making people closer to each other but can be very dehumanizing at the same time.
But I'm sure this is just a moment in our lives. We must believe and improve what we can.
And like I said many times here... I believe after some things we go through our lives we should think that friendship can be more about quality rather than quantity.
Regards!

Deco
 

NamiraWilhelm

Well-known member
These threads make me think we should have like, a single thread where we can have a post each and use our post to kind of advertise ourselves. Tell people a little about ourselves, hobbies and interests etc. Then other people wanting to make friends can have a read through and then pm people they think they have common ground with.
 

nicsa

Active member
hi there, i too am lookin to meet likeminded people either in my home country of the uk (boring, snore, zzzzz) and for someone to get along with as i struggle makin real life friends and pen pals in the past have just gone off. im into sci-fi/fantasy, marvel, old and new movies (eclectic taste), old and new music (mainly rock), reading, animals (only touched a snake once aged 10, would like to carry one, dislike idea of feedin mice to them though yet im a hypocrite as my dog eats ground up beef, chicken etc), im a vegetarian, couldnt get into dr who yet love the concept, theme music, costumes and most of the drs apart from matt smith (who my ex-colleague said was a knob in real life).
do you just have anxiety or depression, any other physical/mental conditions? i have socialphobia, depression, anxiety, occasional agoraphobia, mini breakdowns every month, frequent migraines and of course the gross hyperhidrosis which is a long-term chronic condition causing me to have problems in social situations, meeting others people, making friends (i feel worthless, insignificant and have low self-esteem) and general living with sweat dripping from me half the time and clamminess/residue the other half. i dont want to hate my life or feel ungrateful for my body. i have noticed that im becoming mentally unstable, physically weak + lethargic with memory problems, feelin drowsy a lot (maybe its the meds and eyesight contributing though) and enthusiastic to live. i hate this!!! hence why im on here to meet others in similar situations. nic x
 

PugofCrydee

You want to know how I got these scars?
If you ever want to msg me you're more than welcome to :)

I like movies (I'm only the biggest LOTR fan in the world ever..) I love snakes (I own 1) and love animals in general. :thumbup:
 

The Observer

Well-known member
Hi. I'll be your friend, a great one. If you want feel free to pm me or add me on fb. My name is Barry Bourke. My photo is of a cat in a mans suit. That goes for anyone that would like a new friend.
 
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