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Old 02-14-2008  
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Default Overwhelming feeling of missing someone?

Missing someone naturally hurts but does anyone notice they get worse symptoms than most people (you would think). I think it links to anxiety because it feels almost like a panic.

I'm talking about like missing your girlfriend too. If I'm missing my mom I feel like I can control it but theres been times ive missed people that wasnt my mom and I felt like i couldn't control it! I def think it has to do with anxiety. And I get shy around that person when I get those feelings.
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I get that too.It only happens when I like someone and am developing feelings.I almost feel crippled if i am not with them..I miss them so much.Its almost like a drug addict not getting their drug of choice.Its too much to bear so I usually end up running away from someone I like.Not good.
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I think it's worse for me than it is for most people and I imagaine it would be the same for other people with SA. Anxiety stops me from meeting people and making friends so it's not often I meet someone I really like (as a friend or boyfriend or anything). This means I get more attatched to the few people who mean a lot to me and when I'm separated from them I never get over it.
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Its like I get that attached and when it finally reduces to just a regular missing someone feeling I am like why the heck did I feel that way before? It doesnt feel normal missing someone that much and I know its not, because when I get the "normal" missing feeling Its bad but of course its good just knowing you ARE missing someone but when the anxiety kicks in it takes it to a whole 'nother level...
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I devote myself entirely to a person who I feel a connection with...so when they arent around it drives me crazy!
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Old 02-18-2008  
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It sounds like "abandonment" issues. I am SO like this, I have Borderline Personality Disorder and it's a huge symptom. Maybe look that up? It goes hand in hand with anxiety disorders and depression.
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Well there was a girl who abandoned me and have been reluctant to be close to anyone ever since, but i won't go to any details about it apart from that it was 6 years ago and i was heartbroken.
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Well it was sorda like that... The only time ive ever had this prob was last yr when a girl I was talkin to sorda just stopped talkin to me but I think she liked me but couldnt date me but thats besides the point.

But it was like I couldnt b away from her but when I was with her I couldnt act normal around her and didnt know what to do it was so weird... And I felt like I needed to be around her all the time even though I KNEW there was NO point in thinking that way... It was very miserable..
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Old 11-06-2011  
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I have this problem exactly with my girlfriend at them moment, she's working in a country very far away, working very hard, leaving almost not even enough time to check her emails, the reason I found this site was actually I searched for "missing someone too much" because I am starting to panic, feeling so powerless.
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Default Re: Overwhelming feeling of missing someone?

Been there, done that.

The Sun is, oh, so desperate
to set tonight - ashamed
to light a lie.
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