Painfully Jealous

I am a very jealous person. I get jealous if my BF comments on other girls.. I mean little things (like glasses or something). Or seems flirty with them...or even so much as look curiously at another girl. And I constantly feel that he doesn't find me desirable really or that he doesn't pay me much attention as he used to. I know that he is not bad- like some other guys may be- but I have low self-esteem I suppose and want to be number one. But anyway, I am probably blowing things out of proportion, but there are still things he does that upset me. It's become quite problem some and is making me depressed. I m a decent looking girl and get some attention from some guys, and I feel maybe this is his way of making me feel some jealousy. Anyhow, what should I do with this?

You just have to tell him. But do it in a way that he can tell how much it really hurts you. If you just say something in passing or in an angry way he will just shrug it off or get angry back. I actually had a GF one time that I could tell her if I was attracted to another girl and she could do the same w/me because we were so secure in our love for each other that we both knew we didn't have anything to worry about. So, if he truely loves you he will either make you more secure in your relationship or just stop looking at other girls.

I'm a very jealous person too...I'm jealous of EVERYBODY.

LittleMissScareAll said:

I'm a very jealous person too...I'm jealous of EVERYBODY.

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Even meeeee?

Sometimes I wonder what makes a person hate the person they envy. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?