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Old 11-15-2007
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Anyone else find that people get on their nerves? Everyone gets on my nerves so much because they talk too much.
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Yeah, we definitely have an elitist quality about us that makes us value humility, unobtrusiveness, things like that. It's not a bad thing. I know I pride myself on never being loud, obnoxious, or getting in anyone's face for whatever reason, even though I know not being assertive is costing me in certain aspects of life.
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Old 11-16-2007
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I find most people to be incredibly boring. My husband can sit around at parties and drink and run his mouth for hours on end. I have forced myself to attend some of these parties, and every time they just sit around and get drunk and talk about the same old shit over and over. I had to make an effort not to nod off. Women especially get on my nerves because they like nothing better than to talk a bunch of shit about the other women who aren't present. Then, the next time they see that person, they are just so sugar-sweet and act like they are best friends with that person. It's that kind of sneaky, two-faced garbage that makes me think that most people suck.
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Old 11-16-2007
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Oh shit. I'm a people. That must mean that I get on people's nerves too. Dammit, I just can't win today. You all hate me!!
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Yeah I often find people annoying. I seem to have a very low tolerance towards other people - it doesn't take a lot to piss me off.

I especially get annoyed when people are having a conversation I find boring (which is most of the time) and I'm forced to listen (e.g. at dinner/lunch or in a meeting). It gets so bad sometimes I feel like reaching inside my head and squashing my brain so I don't have to deal with the boredom!
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Old 11-16-2007
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I find most people to be incredibly boring. My husband can sit around at parties and drink and run his mouth for hours on end. I have forced myself to attend some of these parties, and every time they just sit around and get drunk and talk about the same old shit over and over. I had to make an effort not to nod off. Women especially get on my nerves because they like nothing better than to talk a bunch of shit about the other women who aren't present. Then, the next time they see that person, they are just so sugar-sweet and act like they are best friends with that person. It's that kind of sneaky, two-faced garbage that makes me think that most people suck.
Yeah that's true and most conversations are just pointless crap which goes nowhere. I hate sitting down with people just to talk, i prefer to do something active.
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Oh shit. I'm a people. That must mean that I get on people's nerves too. Dammit, I just can't win today. You all hate me!!
Lol. What i meant by people is the really extrovert ones who talk non stop. I'm more of a thinker than a talker, i could sit for hours just thinking without saying a word and people probably think i'm uniterested in them because i'm not talking to them.
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Lol. yeah, I know what you mean. There's definitely a thing as being too extroverted as well. I find it hard to converse with the extremes of either introvertedness or extrovertedness, because of the fine line between. Just gotta kinda... mosey along. Get away from that.
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Yeah that's true and most conversations are just pointless crap which goes nowhere. I hate sitting down with people just to talk, i prefer to do something active.
I like conversations about pointless crap when it's pointless crap I enjoy, but most things people talk about bore the hell out out of me. I wish I had a wider range of conversational topics, that would make so******ing so much less of a chore.
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Old 04-14-2010
 

aye, people get on ma nerves, you would think that a person would take the hint after phoning me 10 times a day for a year and me not answering.

but no no, ring fkn ring fkn ring!! it goes caves ma skull in!!
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Old 04-14-2010
 

This thread should definitely have more replies. Yes, I can't stand people. Ah! Extroverts! Run!
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Old 04-15-2010
 

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Anyone else find that people get on their nerves? Everyone gets on my nerves so much because they talk too much.
Agreed. People think I'm strange because I enjoy sitting there without talking for hours on end sometimes. It makes me feel awkward but I can't help it. Some days I just sit outside and imagine everything I want life to be and I'm content with no one around.
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Old 04-15-2010
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I don't get annoyed very easily. I don't find people getting on my nerves. I'm not much of a talker either, but if they're content to prattle on -- more power to 'em.

Exception to this rule is in the morning before I've had a shower: Just don't talk to me. Don't look at me. In fact, if you even think of me, I'll know it, and I'll hate you. Totally not a morning person...
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Old 04-16-2010
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yesssss!!!

man.. loud people and people who talk too much.. it's just annoying, and i find it immature.. just kind of like they just talk to hear themselves talk.

"it is better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt."
that's what i think! hahaha
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yesssss!!!

man.. loud people and people who talk too much.. it's just annoying, and i find it immature.. just kind of like they just talk to hear themselves talk.

"it is better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt."
that's what i think! hahaha
Haha, what a great saying.

I agree with the rest of you guys. When somebody is endlessly rambling
like a drone i think to my self in an Apu (from Simpons) like voice.
"I can't believe he/she will not shut up"

I actually get anxiety when somebody is talking and trying to fit some many
words into their conversation before they run out of breath.
Feels like I get flash headaches or something.
People should just chill.
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Old 04-16-2010
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yea me too i hate when I hear people talking alot, speaking loudly and laughing.
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