Hi everyone...
The other evening I had to go somewhere in the centre of my very small town, and I came across something I haven't felt for many years, since I don't go out much - groups of people who laugh at you as you go by. You have to walk past or through them, and you know it's probably because of you. It was only about 8:15 pm and it happened to me twice. I know, I know, maybe they weren't laughing at me - sure, sometimes they won't be but I have had times when people say/shout things at me as I go by too. I'm 25 and male but I'm small, I wear glasses and of course I'm on my own, so I stand out a bit. Though, if people decide you're odd then you could be the same as them in every way and they'd still laugh at you.
I'm not so worried about what they think, it's more that it feels like if I do try to go out more, then eventually some group of people is going to do more than laugh at me, if you see what I mean. It really puts me off trying.
It's not any specific people, there seem to be idiots everywhere - I used to feels it in school. Except there's nobody around to have a chance of stopping them doing something to you. It's pretty much always groups of older kids, male and female.
I'm in the UK, in case people are different here
Does anyone else have this problem and do you have any ways of feeling safer?
The other evening I had to go somewhere in the centre of my very small town, and I came across something I haven't felt for many years, since I don't go out much - groups of people who laugh at you as you go by. You have to walk past or through them, and you know it's probably because of you. It was only about 8:15 pm and it happened to me twice. I know, I know, maybe they weren't laughing at me - sure, sometimes they won't be but I have had times when people say/shout things at me as I go by too. I'm 25 and male but I'm small, I wear glasses and of course I'm on my own, so I stand out a bit. Though, if people decide you're odd then you could be the same as them in every way and they'd still laugh at you.
I'm not so worried about what they think, it's more that it feels like if I do try to go out more, then eventually some group of people is going to do more than laugh at me, if you see what I mean. It really puts me off trying.
It's not any specific people, there seem to be idiots everywhere - I used to feels it in school. Except there's nobody around to have a chance of stopping them doing something to you. It's pretty much always groups of older kids, male and female.
I'm in the UK, in case people are different here
Does anyone else have this problem and do you have any ways of feeling safer?