I am new here and I am pretty sure to have this AVPD thing since I have all the symptoms.My story so far:
I am 23 and I live in a small country with mixed cultures and religions. My childhood was the best part of my life as I was the most loved child of my family. But I did not have any friends in the neighborhood as I was overprotected by my parents. I had developed this way of escape through daydreaming which I recently discovered was maladaptive daydreaming. At around 12 yrs age, I was called crazy by some of my neighbors after they saw me talk to myself during my daydreaming. They started looking at me differently and that really blew my confidence away. I then mostly remained inside the house when I was not at school just to avoid them. At high school I could not concentrate on the studies and I was severely bullied. I also got this skin problem where I was itching everywhere on body whenever I was stressed. I had sleepless nights as the itching would start if I only thought about it. I also developed this obsession with my hair after somebody said to me I had lost some of them. Today, I don't have much hair left and I think that I have BDD. I have recently completed my university degree in Mechanical Engineering. University years sucked as well as most boys would mock me due to my hairloss and girls would not pay attention to me. I have cut ties with my group of friends as some of them were always mocking me for being weird or for for having no girlfriends. I got rejected by the 2 girls that I have loved all my life and today I am all alone. During my industrial training related to my degree, I endured 6 months of nightmare as I had to deal with a whole new environment and my boss/supervisor used to belittle and humilliate me in front of the workers. I still live in my parents house and I stay inside almost all day. I am in search of a job but I am so scared that I will mess up any interview I get. I have lost all my confidence and self esteem. I feel so scared of small things in life that its starting to kill me now. I cannot say anything to my parents as I am not sure they will understand what is going inside my head and I have no money to go to a therapy which is quite expensive in my country.
Sorry for being so long and Please give me some advice as to what to do in my life
I am 23 and I live in a small country with mixed cultures and religions. My childhood was the best part of my life as I was the most loved child of my family. But I did not have any friends in the neighborhood as I was overprotected by my parents. I had developed this way of escape through daydreaming which I recently discovered was maladaptive daydreaming. At around 12 yrs age, I was called crazy by some of my neighbors after they saw me talk to myself during my daydreaming. They started looking at me differently and that really blew my confidence away. I then mostly remained inside the house when I was not at school just to avoid them. At high school I could not concentrate on the studies and I was severely bullied. I also got this skin problem where I was itching everywhere on body whenever I was stressed. I had sleepless nights as the itching would start if I only thought about it. I also developed this obsession with my hair after somebody said to me I had lost some of them. Today, I don't have much hair left and I think that I have BDD. I have recently completed my university degree in Mechanical Engineering. University years sucked as well as most boys would mock me due to my hairloss and girls would not pay attention to me. I have cut ties with my group of friends as some of them were always mocking me for being weird or for for having no girlfriends. I got rejected by the 2 girls that I have loved all my life and today I am all alone. During my industrial training related to my degree, I endured 6 months of nightmare as I had to deal with a whole new environment and my boss/supervisor used to belittle and humilliate me in front of the workers. I still live in my parents house and I stay inside almost all day. I am in search of a job but I am so scared that I will mess up any interview I get. I have lost all my confidence and self esteem. I feel so scared of small things in life that its starting to kill me now. I cannot say anything to my parents as I am not sure they will understand what is going inside my head and I have no money to go to a therapy which is quite expensive in my country.
Sorry for being so long and Please give me some advice as to what to do in my life