Poll: White male relationships

I have a few relationship question for my fellow white SA males. I feel white males with SA have a better chance of obtaining relationships because you guys are favored (in dating) by outside fair skin races, such as latin/asian/indian/arab women. I see more of these race women dating you guys versus black men. Yesterday, in the span of 24hrs i seen 3 different Asian women with a white male. I don't think i've even seen !ONE! asian women with a black male in the last 4 month.

If you are a white male with SA please answer the below (if you never had relationship still answer the questions please):

1.How many relationships you had and what were the girls race.
2. Rating of your looks: Do you have below average, average, or above average looks?

Sorry admin i should've switched the title of this thread to "survey" instead of "poll". Totally forgot.

"white males with SA have a better chance of obtaining relationships because you guys are favored (in dating) by outside fair skin races, such as latin/asian/indian/arab women."

Umm, not where I live. Mostly I see people with their own race. But now and then You see them mixed.

PugofCrydee said:

"white males with SA have a better chance of obtaining relationships because you guys are favored (in dating) by outside fair skin races, such as latin/asian/indian/arab women."

Umm, not where I live. Mostly I see people with their own race. But now and then You see them mixed.

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In china, women are obsessed with white skin.

I've seen many videos on youtube (from a south african living in china, SerpentZA), he talks about this phenomenon among others.

White people are favored there.

So yes, it really depends on where someone lives.

Sorry Moses199, I am an Arab. I can't really contribute to this thread.

The questions are a bit much for me, I don't want all that in the public forum.

I'll just say I'm white, have average looks, but no luck with women. However, I don't approach them and I don't socialize much in general, so it's not like I tried very much. That fact might make me "non-applicable" for this survey.

Bronson99 said:

The questions are a bit much for me, I don't want all that in the public forum.

I'll just say I'm white, have average looks, but no luck with women. However, I don't approach them and I don't socialize much in general, so it's not like I tried very much. That fact might make me "non-applicable" for this survey.

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So you never had a gf?

Age 40 and white male. Answer is none. No friends or relationships to speak of. Also notice other white males seem homophobic and call me weird, a fag, a fruit and avoid me like women do

By the way I live in the Boston area which is extremely cliquey and stuck up and not nearly as progressive and liberal as you may think.

I've never had any relationship and I'm white, I don't really think that alone is the sole reason for success or failure. As far as a ranking of my looks, I say 4 or 5 out of 10.

There is some research into women wanting to date the equivalent of their father.

grapevine said:

There is some research into women wanting to date the equivalent of their father.

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Ive been wanting to say this but Ive been afraid Im coming off as a know-it-all >,<. Yeah I think guys will subconsciously do this too. Im not sure if its just appearance or that plus personality. Of course there will be those that want something different or might not have a good relationship with their parents, but its something to consider before concluding that the rejection is of ill will.

I hope I'm not saying something dumb but, statically speaking, let's say 15% of the population is black, 10% of the population is asian and 75% of the population is white... The chances of a female asian ending up with a white male are a lot higher than ending up with a black male, right?

I'm going with a loose definition of "relationship" here and including one-night stands. I have been with 5 females (4 black and 2 white). I have also been with 4 males (3 white and 1 hispanic).

As far as my looks, some people have told me I look good. I don't know what to think. I'm pretty skinny, not muscular at all, and a bit short. I guess I would be average or maybe slightly above.

However, I don't think I'm really representative of society at large. Generally I don't see white guys dating black girls. What happened for me is that my first girlfriend was black, so people got this idea that I'm into black women. I'm not against black women (obviously) but I'm not going to deliberately seek out a black woman. My friend hooked me up with 2 more of the black girls over the course of a few years, because she figured I was into them. So it became something like a self-fulfilling prophecy.

All of these relationships except 2 didn't last very long at all. Some not more than a day. At this point in my life, I'm honestly tired of the dating game that society has you play. I've pretty much dropped out of that game now. All of the focus on money, and vanity, and stupid pointless things that you're supposed to do... hold the door open for her, buy her dinner, all that kind of stuff. It just really bothers me.

In the past couple of years, I've become involved with a particular subculture - not hippies, but a lot of them take a similar attitude towards relationships. There's quite a bit of the "free love" thing going on there, plus polyamory, and also a large portion of them are gay or bisexual. Gender, age, economic status, race - all the things that normal society gives you a checklist for, tells you that your partner has to be within certain parameters - those things matter less to these people. It's very freeing and I no longer feel like I have to put on an act or show off in order for people to be interested in me. I've had more sex (and generally better sex) since running with these people than I did before. I'm now in a long-term relationship with a guy I met in this community, and it's only the second relationship in my life that's lasted more than a month. The last long-term relationship I had was almost 10 years ago, in high school.
What I'm doing is not for everybody, so I'm not going to suggest that you follow my example. But while answering the questions, I started thinking about this. I got tired of dealing with average people, the general public. Their expectations sickened me. Their dating game sickened me. So I dropped out of it and found something else.

I think you touch on an interesting angle. If you're not good enough for women, just switch sides because it's a lot easier. I think some guys here, maybe even the OP, may want to consider this. It's a good direction to go in, you don't need to feel less about yourself. A lot of straight guys who can't get women--because they're unwanted, low-status, socially off, or whatever--should think about switching for a while.

White Male relationships . Mmmmmm.........what are you doing later big guy.

Bronson99 said:

I think you touch on an interesting angle. If you're not good enough for women, just switch sides because it's a lot easier. I think some guys here, maybe even the OP, may want to consider this. It's a good direction to go in, you don't need to feel less about yourself. A lot of straight guys who can't get women--because they're unwanted, low-status, socially off, or whatever--should think about switching for a while.

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Well, I wasn't talking strictly about gays - I'm referring to the furry community. It's about 75% male and I'd say the majority of them are gay or bisexual, so there is a lot of overlap there though. I don't want it to seem like I'm saying "Just be gay!" because I know it doesn't work like that... so that's why I made sure to state this route isn't going to work for everybody. I'm just trying to share my experiences.

Europeans/( White people for morons ) make up 77% of the United States population to 23% precentage of non-European. Black ( People of African decent, because there is no true black race/culture ) are the upper 17%, with Latin/Hispanic/bilingual/etc the 12%, and Asians are 0.5% with the remainder of 2% Other ( where I am ).

Bottom line your wrong OP. People in these other groups are doing that because of the media and the bigger chance of success along with the previous red-lining and racism that has flourished.

A man with a job and is in shape looks tempting to most women period.

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OP just to make you understand White women ( may be Jewish, Farm-girl/Mid-west, etc, etc, Parasite from a European nation ) also have the need for sex with other race groups as well who are not white.

RegalSin said:

A man with a job and is in shape looks tempting to most women period.

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A man in shape but without a job might still look tempting, in some cases? Hopefully?

If not, what about a man in shape but with a crappy job. Would that be good enough?