Post your random thoughts/feelings etc
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Phoenixx
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^ Haha, I do this to my mom's cat occasionally. She actually likes playing in water. Running faucet, water dish, glass of water on the counter, you name it, she'll have her paw in it either flicking it or just repeatedly dunking her paw in and then licking it. She actually goes outside when it's raining and plays in puddles, flicks the water around with her paw. So weird.
Lea
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MikeyC
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This guy...this guy right here. He's crazy!
I think I may be guilty of it, too. In fact I'm certain I am.
Srijita52
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Yeah, I need to change this attitude too. Maybe we do it because we want to please everyone? That's not possible of course though.
WeirdyMcGee
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You could try a good old fashioned lobotomy!
But you'll have to get in line behind me, first.
MikeyC
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I think so. Not everyone accepts it, though. I always think it's something I've done wrong, which is probably true, anyway.
Can I jump the queue?
Srijita52
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I don't think its true Mikey. Maybe people who dislike you are just way more different than you, or maybe they're being jerks. Don't be so hard on yourself, you're such an awesome person. I'm sure you won't do anything wrong intentionally.
MrSunday
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I focus on negative issues too. I suppose we ponder of these issues because it has the most impact on us.
MikeyC
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I don't do anything wrong intentionally, but I still feel that I do say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing. I mean, I'm focusing on someone that dislikes me right now, instead of someone like you that doesn't. I really need to wonder why I'm like this because it affects everything.
I suppose you're right. I seem to focus on someone's negativity towards me than the opposite. Ugh.
Srijita52
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I know how you feel, I think I do it because I hate the idea of anyone disliking me and can't help but wish that they liked me instead. I'm not sure if its same for you but I hope you can be able to stop focusing on such people, they're definitely not worth it.
KiaKaha
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Dont worry - I have the same problem too. One inkling of rejection and my world comes tumbling down - I have to reject first and push all those out of my life that remind me of just how much of an incredible failure I am. I would rather be ignored than be reminded that I am not good enough.
I can tell you both right now Srijita and Mikey that the both of you are extremely likeable and charming - I like both of you, and lots of other people here do as well. Mikey - you have an amazing warmth to your personality, you listen to people....always. People like that. You are definitely well liked and respected.
Srijita - you are kind hearted, patient, insightful and intelligent - and just generally an awesome person - traits that are always well received and respected also. In my opinion the world needs more people like you.
So BOO to all those people who cant see what wonderful people you both are - either they are too wrapped up in themselves to care or give you an opportunity to know you better, or they just arent worth knowing in the first place.
Although - in saying all of this .... I know EXACTLY where you are coming from - its not easy to believe sometimes...trust me, I know too....
I can tell you both right now Srijita and Mikey that the both of you are extremely likeable and charming - I like both of you, and lots of other people here do as well. Mikey - you have an amazing warmth to your personality, you listen to people....always. People like that. You are definitely well liked and respected.
Srijita - you are kind hearted, patient, insightful and intelligent - and just generally an awesome person - traits that are always well received and respected also. In my opinion the world needs more people like you.
So BOO to all those people who cant see what wonderful people you both are - either they are too wrapped up in themselves to care or give you an opportunity to know you better, or they just arent worth knowing in the first place.
Although - in saying all of this .... I know EXACTLY where you are coming from - its not easy to believe sometimes...trust me, I know too....
Boby
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Anyone watching the Eurovision this evening?
http://www.eurovision.tv/esctv
http://www.eurovision.tv/esctv
Phoenixx
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^ It's late afternoon here, but I'm still spending it alone so far. I'm actually enjoying it.
Srijita52
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Its night here now, I spent the evening alone too, I liked it though.
Thanks Kia. You know you're a great person too. You're kind, amazing, and I know you have a big heart. You've a desire to help everyone and make the society a better place. The people who can't see it, don't deserve to be around you anyway. You're not a faliure Kia.
You and Mikey both are wonderful people. I'm sure everyone around you is lucky to know you, I know I am.