HELP im too jealous

mandylovesdan · Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2005 1:46 am Post subject: jealousy

ok he doesnt look at woman he knew that are naked...if that were the case we wouldnt be together thats just too far...this is just a porn site where all the chicks have there own webcam and get paid for it just to sit there or masterbate in front of the camera...i am incredibly insecure and have very low self esteem...im never going to ask him to stop that would be wrong of me to do but i am going to first work on my esteem cuz thats the main problem i think...the reason him lookings such a big deal is i feel inferior and the reason hes looking is cuz hes not satisfied once i get past that everything else will fall into place...so i guess off to the gym i go...lol

Guest · Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2005 2:35 am Post subject:

As usual, well except for the spirit/body thingy, I'm with worry.

Remus · Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2005 9:33 am Post subject:

Well mandy, thats pretty mean of him to make you feel that way, maybe tell him you dont like it, relationships are about truth and sharing, be honest.

Some men are obsessed by porn, to a high extreme, if he's paying for women to prostitute themselve infront of a camera then I think he may fall into that catogary.

I get the feeling you have about the same point of view about porn as I do.

I could understand if he was single and doing it but when in a relationship, its taking the piss abit.

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mandylovesdan · Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2005 1:33 pm Post subject:

well the low self esteem thing came way before i even met him so its not him who is making me feel like crap...it just comes with this low self image i have...i am doing something about it though which is more than i can about most people but i am doing it in a healthy fashion..i eat alot just healthy now instead of junk...i excercise and take my vitamins(not diet pills just plain old multivitamins) and i tan with my self tanner which i feel i look better with ...hes not making me do this im doing it for myself...

i do communicate with him and he has improved greatly with how he goes about his "hobby" of porn and just checking chicks out...hes doing nothing wrong and jealousys normal to an extent and im finally learning this and am actually improving...so for everyone who gave me good advice thank you and the bad advice thanks for trying lol :l~

monica · Posted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 1:20 am Post subject:

Thats crazy I dont know what are you doing with that guy
I think that he doesnt care about you,he just care about sex he's too horney all the time
If you keep accepting his behavior with naked girls on webcam ..soon he will try to make you do something with them Smile

Melodyz · Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 7:50 am Post subject:

Porn doesn't make me jealous. Although the ex-girfriend thing definately would.

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