If you have a baby because you feel 'lonely', not only will you be an extremely dumb person, but you'll also be unhappy because it won't do you any good. What a ridiculous reason to have a child.
If you have a baby because you feel 'lonely', not only will you be an extremely dumb person, but you'll also be unhappy because it won't do you any good. What a ridiculous reason to have a child.
I wouldn't be stupid enough to actually do anything like that...
I know few single girls at 20's/30's that say their daughters are their best friend and they live only for them. If they hadnt their babies maybe they would feel very lonely and depressed.
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Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 1:21 pm Post subject:
I feel the same way. The lonelier I am, the more I want a baby. And it makes me sad/upset/confused to see people I know who are rude/inconsiderate (and not always pretty or smart) have boyfriends/husbands/babies/the house with the white picket fence... I know I'm avoidant and I'm really trying to change my pattern of behaviour. I think I've made major improvements lately...and I won't give up hope. But I think sometimes life is unfair. I have just as much to offer as any of those other women who have a husband and child ... so why can't I fulfill that dream. Why is it my fate to have a personality disorder and live through circumstances that prevent me from being completely happy and procreating:?: Shouldn't we all have a chance in this world.
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sad/upset/confused to see people I know who are rude/inconsiderate (and not always pretty or smart) have boyfriends/husbands/babies/the house with the white picket fence... I know I'm avoidant and I'm really trying to change my pattern of behaviour. I think I've made major improvements lately...and I won't give up hope. But I think sometimes life is unfair. I have just as much to offer as any of those other women who have a husband and child ... so why can't I fulfill that dream. Why is it my fate to have a personality disorder and live through circumstances that prevent me from being completely happy and procreating:?: Shouldn't we all have a chance in this world.
