Joined: Feb 01, 2007 Posts: 43 Location: Australia
Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 10:08 am Post subject:
SocialRetahd wrote:
If you are very good looking you don't need many skills, from what i've seen.
Im good looking and im in the same boat as the thread starter, .
Looks are nothing without confidence as people will just think you have your head up your ass.
I am woeful with women
When you hit 25 and have limited experience with women you secretly become 'gay' in peoples eyes. Oh well maybe I could hook up with a guy named Bruce and refer to others that I have a partner
Joined: Apr 25, 2007 Posts: 31 Location: Bristol UK
Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 9:02 pm Post subject:
Crazy thing is all you guys sound like decent people too..
cahmon spill the beans on here and tell us whats causing your social anxiety. start hitting the roots of your problems.
Mine has always been acne and being a late starter at school, having a baby face, drug abuse, ex girlfriend making me insecure etc.
i have found that i have dramticially cured my SA by hitting these problems with opposites. I have turned into a fitness freak, got into music in a big way, and improved what skills or postive things i have in my life ten fold. Beleive it or not i DJ to a lot of people at the weekend yet i still do get hit by my SA. Last year though prior to my dj;ing i couldn;'t even go to the supermarket without having a panic attack. Unfortuantely its late so i cant write to much more and i have some what strayed from the posters intial question but i still think it works in the same way
Joined: Aug 17, 2007 Posts: 1123 Location: Wales, UK
Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 5:52 pm Post subject:
SocialRetahd wrote:
If you are very good looking you don't need many skills, from what i've seen.
But is that enough for a lasting relationship? I believe that you must be sexualy attracted to the other person, but if it'd solely based on that persons looks then it's pointless.
If you are very good looking you don't need many skills, from what i've seen.
But is that enough for a lasting relationship? I believe that you must be sexualy attracted to the other person, but if it'd solely based on that persons looks then it's pointless.
If you are good looking, girls will come to you. And no, it's not good for a long relationship, but is that what you really want? Those never seem to work out too well and require a lot of work.
Joined: Oct 08, 2005 Posts: 103 Location: Lincolnshire, UK
Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 8:08 am Post subject:
hi there. I am sorry to hear of your bad luck with women as it was just the same for me at your age. A suggestion for you... why don't you try joining a local dating agency or try some chat rooms. Believe it or not, I met my life long partner on a chatroom in the UK - it can happen I am living proof of that. Just remember, that dating is a numbers game and sometimes you have to be prepared to ask quite a lot of women out before you find one right for you. I can understand you feeling hurt and feeling that women are playing games, but don't take rejection personally you have to have to move onto the next one straight away and try not to become hurt and despondent. You are as good as anybody!
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but i still think it works in the same way 
