People get wrong impression of you ???

IBM · Newbie User Joined: May 12, 2007 Posts: 99

i know how you feel- I've the same problem.

Mortiska · Newbie User Joined: May 26, 2007 Posts: 18

Lovin' da' Revamped Avatar! Very Happy

opinionated_m · Newbie User Joined: Oct 07, 2007 Posts: 11

from my experiences... most ppl when starting a new job or making new friends & such... are kind of quiet & shy. When you're quiet nobody can really make a 'real' assumption of your personality bc they haven't fully met you. they can only think that maybe you are shy or quiet. nothing worse.
also I think that some ppl are HORRIBLE at judging others personalities & thinking they know someone whereas some ppl have the gift to know you very quickly... or at least be able to sum up what they have learned about you in a short time with the correct words.
for ex.. my g/f of 2yrs kind of knows me but makes incorrect assumptions at times. Since my recent relapse of SA she has gotten to see what I went through 4yrs ago when I had it. She says she thinks she has finally gotten to know the 'real me'. I'm thinking to myself...(me going through SA doesn't totallly make up me, me when I overcame it was me too.) the harder side of my life doesn't just make up who I am.. anyway some ppl just misjudge. You have to learn to ignore & correct them if you want. Other ppl within a few hours of talking to me have been able to accurately describe the 'me' that they met with in that time.