The Real person behind your mask

stormygrey · Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 6:12 pm Post subject:

If I didn't have SA, I'd be a go-getter, someone famous with a lot of ideas and who likes to organise things, like events, and I'd have liked to motivate and inspire people too, and make a +ve difference in their lives. I'd definitely not put things off, but unfortunately having SA the past few years, I have prevented myself from developing enough.

DYiNG-iNSiDE · Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 7:57 pm Post subject:

ive found that more and more of the time my personality is the SP one and not my real one and that scares me- soon will all i be is the SP personality?? but the real me is really funny, interesting, talkative, cool and comfortable. my mom says if ppl could c the real me every1 would love me, but they dont c it Sad

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Starry · Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 8:02 pm Post subject:

I'm not sure who the real me is. I've been very shy/social phobic all my life. I don't know how to be anything other than that. Though when I'm with people I'm comfortable with or online I'm a little different - I still have some anxieties and paranoias etc. But I'm more able to be what I suppose is the "real me." I'm just not sure what that is. Sometimes, it's crazy and weird. Sometimes it's serious. Sometimes it's intigued and searching. Sometimes it's moody, sometimes it's happy. I'm not sure who or what I am lol.

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haze · Newbie User Joined: Sep 14, 2006 Posts: 82

when im with people im comfortable with im pretty funny in a really ironic, bitter and obnoxious way.

E · Newbie User Joined: Jan 04, 2007 Posts: 28

thequietone · Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2007 12:53 am Post subject:

jinxed · Intermediate User Joined: Mar 18, 2006 Posts: 298

Truthfully, no one should really be fake unless it's sth terrible and if everyone could be their true selves then we'd realize that we're all regular, fragile and like attention and care and there aren't much differences, it's our insecurities on that truth though that we still try to protect ourselves.

opinionated_m · Newbie User Joined: Oct 07, 2007 Posts: 11

i vent alot w those I'm close to about ppl's behaviors. thats one thing I notice. i can joke & make ppl laugh. I'm descriptive & can tell a long story out of a very short one. lol
everyone does bring out something different from me... or makes me feel a certian way. I've had certian guys that I was consistently outgoing, talkative, happy go lucky around & really comfortable but would'nt date (just considered a friend). some ppl, just make me happier to be around. of course i like to associate myself mostly with others who I feel comfortable with & can be myself.

rado31 · Expert User Joined: Sep 15, 2006 Posts: 693

emotional wreck.

Freedom_dreams · Newbie User Joined: Oct 06, 2007 Posts: 8

Once again this website shocks me! I am not alone! Alot of you describe the way I feel so much.

When I'm comfortable with people I am happy, outgoing and occasionally funny but as soon as I lose that comfort factor my mind goes blank, I have nothing to say, I feel stupid and out of place trying to hind and not be seen.

Why does this happen? Why can't we be ourselves, I don't understand... Sad