Joined: Oct 18, 2006 Posts: 18 Location: West Midlands
Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 12:22 pm Post subject:
Well I’m glad I spotted this post as I have been wondering lately if I was the only person that had conversations with them self, terns out I’m not thank god, thought I might be crazy or something well may be I am many be we all are.
Ye I also analyse what I said to a person or how I acted once a person has left I always wonder what they thought of me and there opinion of me
Joined: Jun 20, 2005 Posts: 431 Location: United States of America
Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 7:22 am Post subject:
Yeah, I do quite a lot. I'm always having pretend conversations in my head with other people, be they celebrities or just friends or family members. Maybe it's just a way of me practicing my speech and my small talk? Who knows.
I,m "stop" i,m feeling i have reach a point i tried thats all i will say i think this is a great forum and i think it will help many people with problems similar to those of mine goodluck to all social phobia sufferers bye all.
Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 6:36 am Post subject: yes
sometimes I OCD on talking to myself.. just like you. maybe pretending you are telling someone (friend/person you dated...) "your whole life story" even.... i've realized I enjoy it very much. but it feels like wasted time at times... I have to put a cap on it if it takes up to much time.
when I was younger i started doing it bc when I got upset with someone at school I found myself wishing I could've had more wit & stuck up for myself. so I would vent while alone & upset about what this person did by pretending I was telling them "whatever" or wishing I could have fixed the problem through better communication.
Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:23 pm Post subject: Re: yes
opinionated_m wrote:
sometimes I OCD on talking to myself.. just like you. maybe pretending you are telling someone (friend/person you dated...) "your whole life story" even.... i've realized I enjoy it very much. but it feels like wasted time at times... I have to put a cap on it if it takes up to much time.
when I was younger i started doing it bc when I got upset with someone at school I found myself wishing I could've had more wit & stuck up for myself. so I would vent while alone & upset about what this person did by pretending I was telling them "whatever" or wishing I could have fixed the problem through better communication.
Sounds a lot like me... I grew so used to doing it that I usually don't realize how much time do I spend infront of a mirror, talking to people who aren't there. Sigh. Well, there are more destructive activities on this planet... but there are also a few more useful things.
When I'm feeling isolated, I occasionally talk to myself as a way to broadcast my thoughts and break the silence. There's really nothing wrong with it unless you literally believe you're talking to someone, which I don't think anyone here does. My brother caught me once, and I had to make up something that was complete B.S. It's not really a good habit, I try not to do it too much, but it doesn't make us crazy either.
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