i need help..

YankeeBob · Intermediate User Joined: Aug 29, 2007 Posts: 113

i don't know. just asking.

br26 · Newbie User Joined: Sep 27, 2007 Posts: 7

br26 · Newbie User Joined: Sep 27, 2007 Posts: 7

oh, i didnt read your topic at the top. sorry.

yes, i am, in a way. im just scared about how she will take it...if it were anything small im sure id already be talking to her, but this is something really sick and wrong. i dont even know how to approach her.

and..that whole thing i was ranting about earlier feels like its eating away at me. i have this overpowering urge to unblock and look at that number..but i am giving it my all NOT to. i don't want to know that number. i dont even want to look at any phone. but yeah. i need to go get help, but i have no idea on how to even approach my mom and talk to her about this. this would just cast a huge burden on her.

YankeeBob · Intermediate User Joined: Aug 29, 2007 Posts: 113

Ok.

Its your choice.

You can either

1) repress your feelings and harm yourself,

2) talk to your mother about it and be open and honest BEFORE the volcano explodes,

3) talk to someone else about the issues with your mother, in confidence. Say with a cousin or aunt whom you trust.

Its your choice.....procrastinate if you wish. Take action if you wish. Doing nothing is also a decision.

Take care. Be well.

casey311wvu · Newbie User Joined: Nov 17, 2007 Posts: 4

I completely understand...and this is how I know I do it myself: I've never had these thoughts till I heard that OTHERS had them...your mind can create all sorts of stuff. For me I get scared when I get angry or agitated...like wow what if I carry it out..but I know i'd never do that. It's all me creating it.