I asked a girl out today. She said...

steviegerrard489 · Intermediate User Joined: Aug 04, 2006 Posts: 120

..Yes.

But I still have my doubts! (Typical shyness / negative thoughts)

Anyway, this girl works at my local gym and I have 'known her for about a year, or just over a year. I first noticed her looking at me occasionally but it took me about 4 months to actually get the courage to say something to her.

We spoke every now and again in the cooridoor etc and about 3 months ago we became 'facebook friends'.

So today I was in the gym waiting and waiting for her co-workers to disappear. They eventually did so I went over to say hello and we talked about general stuff like 'how was your weekend'. Then I said: "I've been meaning to ask, would you like to come out for a drink with me one evening?!" She went bright red! Laughing

Then she said something like: "What do you mean, like a date or like friends?" I said: "What ever you want it to be!" (or words to that effect). Then I said: " You must get asked out all the time!" and she said "Not as often as you think!"

Well ultimately she said 'yes' but we agreed to wait a couple of weeks because she is going on vacation very soon. I agreed to send her a message on Facebook. Then the conversation ended because she had a personal training session to give.

So I have 2, maybe 3 weeks to psyche myself up for this date.

socialhen · Newbie User Joined: Oct 19, 2007 Posts: 22

hahaha, i dont know why,i m just so happy for u ,good luk@@!!!! Very Happy

RedRibbons · Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 7:15 pm Post subject:

Aww! That's totally awesome. lol. Good luck, eh? Smile

okkamsrazor · Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 8:00 pm Post subject:

Yes stevie lets hope you score Wink

(sorry just couldn't help it..)

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Vancouver · Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 8:20 pm Post subject:

Fuck yeah! One down, 29 to go. Line 'em up, shoot 'em down.

UnhappyGuy · Newbie User Joined: Nov 03, 2007 Posts: 3

haha! I'm glad you plucked up the courage and it worked out for you! I hope everything goes okay for you!

maggie · Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 9:38 pm Post subject:

wow! awesome stevie! I think you've got the hardest part over with..the approaching and asking out..now you know she's interested in you..that's really cool..and the fact that she went bright red? in a weird way, that would have made me feel better..that perhaps she's shy as well..keep up posted Cool

zeroday · Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 10:11 pm Post subject:

im really happy for you too, im rooting for you man!

SocialRetahd · Expert User Joined: Dec 02, 2006 Posts: 762

good luck. Ugly guys like me aren't allowed to ask people out, unless they are also visual pollution. And even then, the person is only with you because they can't do any better.

stevelee24 · Newbie User Joined: Nov 04, 2007 Posts: 13

First of all great news but i think the waiting 2 to 3 weeks will make it abit harder for you the more time you have to build up the worse it is i find its easyer just to jump right in.
if i was you id put the date right at the back of your mind until the time comes dont get stressed about it
Good Luck