inlove but too hard

allieaust · Newbie User Joined: Jun 30, 2007 Posts: 30

i cant stop thinking about this person. I have lived with this person but never been able to actually be really open and friendly and i am way behind in my life to be able to catch up with this person..

it really hurts cause this person is fed up with me - time and time again i just becaime deppressed and anxious because of life because i am trying to get out of being a hermit for once, be independent and stuffed it all up.

Asked to go home - i just want to be able to let go and show this person the me as a strong calm in control beautiful and motivating caring person..

someone who can take on responbilties and have inner strength - i have become so attatched to depart gives a real sense of heartbreak and to know this person is not interested and may never will be - i am so reserved and sensitive and seem so rude..

i have so much love to give this person but i have to work on myself so much and i feel time is running out.. i have such anxiety..

if this person felt the same than i would be open too. Confused

sabbath92001 · Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 9:58 am Post subject: Love The One You're With by CSN&Y

If you’re down and confused, and you don’t remember who you’re talkin’ to. Concentration slip away, ‘cause your baby is so far away.

Well there’s a rose in the fisted glove and the eagle flies with the dove, and if you can’t be with the one you love, honey, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with.

Don’t be angry, don’t be sad, and don’t sit cryin’ over good times you’ve had. There’s a girl right next to you, and she’s just waitin’ for something to do.

And there’s a rose in the fisted glove and the eagle flies with the dove, and if you can’t be with the one you love, honey, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with.

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Turn your heartache right into joy, she’s a girl, and you’re a boy. Well get it together, make it real nice,
You ain’t gonna need anymore advice.

And there’s a rose in the fisted glove and the eagle flies with the dove, and if you can’t be with the one you love, honey, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with.

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allieaust · Newbie User Joined: Jun 30, 2007 Posts: 30

thnx

Doomed2Die · Posted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 12:05 am Post subject:

Also real love takes long, so even though at the moment this other person shows nothing something may happen that can change minds. Show good personality traits and work on them (looking for a relationship or not) and generally be patient.

Hmm this may not need apply since your starting post was a few weeks back. Good fortune anyway ^^.

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